My Favorite Money Saving Websites

Today I would like to share with you some of my favorite money saving resources on the web.  I encourage you all to spread the love and share these with your friends, family and colleagues.  After all...we are all in this recession together.  In no particular order, here are some of my faves:

For everything coupons, visit my friend Mindi at http://www.momsneedtoknow.com/.  You will learn everything you need to know about how to coupon effectively and keep up on deals of the week at select stores including Walgreens, CVS, Rite Aid, and many more.  I heard a rumor that Giant Eagle will soon be added to the list so hang tight for that!

For everything fashion, you can't beat my friend Aly's bargainista blog over at splendidcity called Shopaholics Daily.  Aly Walansky is on top of virtually every sale with lightening speed, so be sure to subscribe to her feed.  Many of the sales are so great that they sell out quickly, so tune in here for the best deals on the coolest fashions.

For great discussions and grocery deals for the entire family, please visit my friend Kim Danger at http://www.mommysavers.com/.  I absolutely love the forums and have participated in many discussions.  Be sure to subscribe to the site and join in on the fun.  Tons of great money saving tips for the entire family!

Another super website to follow is http://www.bargainbabe.com/.  My friend Julia has some of the best and most creative money saving ideas out there.  Subscribe to her feed and receive Julia's advice directly into your inbox.  Today she shared four new articles!  Definitely something for everyone here! 


So those are just a few of the websites that I frequent to try and save a few extra pennies.  What about you?  Where do you go to keep up on the sales and money saving tips?  Please share your favorite money saving blogs or websites below in the comments!

Bargains Guys Should be Looking For Right Now

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner! Keep a look out for the following gift ideas that may be found on clearance racks right now at huge discounts!

Leather Gloves

Sterling Silver Jewelry  (Amazon link to cuff shown)

Winter Coats

Bath and Body Lotions, Soaps, and Spa Products

Cashmere Sweaters

Designer Nightwear (please skip the fuzzy slippers and flannel jammies)

Pashmina Wraps

Designer Purses

Try discount department stores like TJ Maxx, Marshalls, Burlington Coat Factory, Khols and Ross Dress for Less for the biggest bargains. If you live in the PA tri-state area, a visit to Gabriel Brothers is a must!  Don't forget to use the "Gift of Three"--Try to be more specific with your romantic theme.  Or just buy three pieces of jewelry...LOL!  Happy Giving!

The Gift of Three: Your Fabulous Ideas Part I

I'm a proud mama bear today! Last week I ran a Facebook contest asking for your "Gift of Three" ideas and I was totally blown away!  The ideas were very inspired, creative and affordable!  Kuddos to eveyone who participated...you done good :)  Because these ideas were so fantastic I wanted to share them with all of you just in case you have a few last minute gifts that you need to prepare for in the next few days.  Here we go with a sampling of my favorites! 






Robin M:  For your friends who have kiddies, a "date night" package
1. Dinner gift certificate for Olive Garden
2. 2 movie passes
3. Coupon to babysit while they are out on their date night!

Melinda F:  The Gift of warmth...
1. Smore maker kit
2. Hand warmers
3. Hot cocoa mix and mug!

Barbara H: Winter Warm Up

1. Two comfy-in-hand mugs.
2. A small bottle of rum
3. A batch of Hot Buttered Rum mixture and the recipe to make more.


Leann J: Gift Theme: The Gift of family fun and promises to go on picnics

Gift One: Outdoor party plates from Pampered Chef (set of six) $9.50
Gift Two: Outdoor utensil set from Pampered Chef (set of six and these ones snap together) $12.50
Gift Three: A nice big picnic blanket ... perhaps something you find on clearance

Mary A:  The gift of snuggle "downtime"

1. A Snuggly for $14.95
2. A good book - prices vary
3. A box of Sarris chocolates $9.95

Kathy H: The Gift of Indulgence
1. Container of Sipping Chocolate (powder) from Trader Joe's $3.99
2. Mix of Chocolates from Trader Joe's <$10 (various types)
3. Mug from Big Lots/Geagle/Walmart/Goodwill... $5-$10

Noelle O: The gift of a bagged lunch (for a female) :

1.Vera Bradley lunch bag $21
2.Klean Kanteen travel aluminum bottle $15
3.coupons for various lunch items (ziploc bags, frozen meals, soup, etc) FREE

Anne T:  The gift of art: (for my 5 year old)

1. Art Easel. From Michaels. Reg. $39.95, used my 40% coupon and got it for $23.97
2. Art box: Filled with extra supplies bought at back to school time: $1.00 for box.
3. White Dress Shirt, from Good Will Store(for smock): $ 2.25.

Extra gift baskets I have on hand, just in case:

1. Wine Glasses, $1 each at the dollar store(bought 8 for 4 extra baskets)
2. 4 Bottles of wine(bought 6 and got a 10% bulk discount, the other 2 are for me!)Abput $8 per bottle
3. Wine opener: Have 4, again, the dollar store

Barbara H:  Baker's Bounty

1. A copy of Beard on Bread from Amazon - $12
2. A loaf pan - with our without the loaf you may have baked in it $2 -$4
3. A fun kitchen towel to lay over rising bread - can use it to wrap it all up. $2-$4

Rebecca M:  The Gift of Walking
* Aluminum water bottle in a cheery color -- about $7

* Wrist wallet (to carry ID, insurance card and cell phone) -- about $10 online, or make your own
* Online music store gift card (to load favorite tunes on mp3 player) -- Your choice
* Small microfiber towel (for a quick dry off upon return) -- About $5
* Encouraging note – Priceless

Jen S:  On the card, include this quote from the toast on It's A Wonderful Life:

1. Bountiful Beer Bread...that this house may never know hunger.
2. Seasoned Salt...that life may always have flavor.
3. Sangria Drink Mix...that joy and prosperity may reign forever!
www.tastefullysimple.com/web/jstover

Colleen C:  The Gift of a Legacy for your Inlaws or Parents!

They can write it down for your children to tell and pass down!

A Father's Legacy: Your Life St... (Spiral-bound) by Thomas Nelson
A Mother's Legacy: Your Life St... (Spiral-bound) by Thomas Nelson
A Nice Pen to write the Legacy:
Total Price : Is PRICELESS!!!!

Have any of your own inspired ideas?  Please share your "Gift of Three" in the comment section below!  Great job, everyone!!!

Holiday Stress Got You Down? Snap Out of It!

Today marks one week until Christmas--how did that happen so quickly?  If I'm asking that question, I'm sure you are, too.  Truth be told, rather than enjoying the holiday season, most people are frazzled and overwhelmed...too stressed out to really enjoy the true meaning of the season.  Here are a few tips to help keep this time of year in perspective and enjoy the company of the people you love the most!

1.  STOP, DROP and BREATHE:  If you are feeling like you are going to have a stroke because you have too much to do with too little time, just stop!  Sit down and focus on the experiences that mean most to you over the holiday.  Breath deeply and focus on the positive.  You don't have to do it all!  Rethink you holiday traditions and decide to make the most of what resources you do have...the love and companionship of family and friends.  A gathering with cheese and crackers is no different than one with prime rib when you have the right people sitting at your table.  Take some pressure off of yourself...you deserve it!

2.  JUST SAY NO:  Don't overcommit yourself this holiday season.  Decide right now how you are going to spend Christmas weekend and make sure to carve in some quality time for your immediate family.  If you are frazzled, they are frazzled.  And that is not really a holiday, right?  Sit down as a family and make a schedule that you can all look forward to.  Ease your guilt by scheduling visits after the holiday has passed.  Then get on the horn and do it!

3.  CHOOSE LIFE:  In the grand scheme of things, holiday planning is not a matter of life and death.  Focus on what you can do to make the holiday brighter and more memorable rather than the need to please everyone and keep up with the Joneses.  Give yourself permission not to be perfect and design a holiday with traditions that you will look forward to and put the joy back into holiday celebrations. 

What are your holiday survival tips?  I would love to hear your ideas...please share your comments below!

Photo Credit :  thesecretlanguageoffeelings.com

Uncommon Yet Practical Gifts

I'm always on the lookout for a great central gift that really "speaks" the gift giving theme that I am trying to convey. at UncommonGoods makes the brainstorming for unique and affordable gifts so much fun! Here are some of my new favorites. Can you guess the theme for each one? What else could we give along with it to make a memorable Gift of Three?


UDON NOODLE BOWLS



Circle Kabob Skewers


Record Bowls


TEA CANDLES




CHALKBOARD PLACEMAT SET OF 4




VINTAGE RESTORED PHONE




Scarf Spritzer Knit Kits






Embroidered City and State Pillows



Are your wheels turning yet? Giving in three's is easier than you think! And the added thought you put into the gift really takes the giving over the top!

Collectible and Memorable Ornaments

Stuck on a gift idea for someone who has everything? Thoughtful holiday ornaments are a great (and fun!) solution to this gift giving dilemma. Go the extra mile and personalize your selections to the likes and interests of the givee. Not sure? Check out their social networking profiles for plenty of clues! Here are some of my favorites:



Star Wars R2-D2 Holiday Waterball Ornament
On sale for $4.30




I Love Lucy 4-Inch Resin Ornaments
$19.99



Betty Boop Blow Mold Ornaments
$11.99



Elvis Presley 5-Inch Resin Ornaments
$22.99



Sex and the City Shoe and Martini Glass Ornaments
$27.99



South Park 3-Inch Blow Mold Ornaments Set
$16.99



Simpsons Blow Mold Ornaments Set
$12.99

If you are looking for collectible action figures, toys, bobble heads, and movie memorabilia, this site has you covered. They really do have some pretty unique stuff! Some items are a bit pricey, but they currently have a holiday gift rush sale going on right now. Free shipping on orders over $59, too. Happy Giving~

Personalized Gifts Under $10

I have been a VistaPrint customer for years. From business cards to promotional merchandise, I haven't found a cheaper or faster production house for custom printed merchandise. If you can be patient with their shopping cart process and ignore all of the popups, you can save big money on customized gifts! We talked yesterday about gifts for the student. This post is an off-shoot of that conversation, because many of you are looking for fun yet practical gifts that won't break the bank. The following options would make great gifts for anyone on your gift list, particullary for the someone who has everything! These are just examples, but I included them to give you some creative ideas!
Photo Wall Calendar: $7.99












Personalized Pens: One FREE or 5 for $10.99














Personalized Notepads: $8.99

And the great news is there is a big sale going on over there! Be sure to explore the free category and take advantage of the freebies while they last. Happy Giving!
Free Shipping on orders over $50 PLUS 25% Off All Products!

Stocking Stuffers for the Student Under $10

I have a serious office supply addicition. I can't leave Staples it seams without an ample supply of sticky notes, file folders and stationary. Which got me thinking...How can you make office supplies a practical and cool gift? Personalization. And it's much cheaper than you think! The following personalized items can be found at Current Labels

Be sure to take your time and browse around for more unique gift ideas. They have tons to choose from. And be sure to check out their clearance section first for some real steals on address labels...they really make a perfect gift for a neighbor or senior citizen on your gift list when paired with a sheet of stamps and maybe some all occasion greeting cards!

Ten Cards for $5.95

Twelve Pencils for $6.99

250 Labels for $7.95
500 Labels for $10.95

Now isn't that a great "gift of three" for under $25? Cha-ching!

Current Labels

Gift Ideas Under $10

From my favorite website EVER, I found these little gems and had to share them with you! Use them to compliment your next "gift of three" or as stocking stuffers for that someone special!

The Cosmopolitan Koozie: $4.19










Wine Tasting Labels: $5.99












Embroidered Luggage Tags: $7.99












Food Prep Chopping Mats: $8.99










Extendable Back Scratcher: $7.99











High Heel Pump Door Stop: $9.99











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The Perfect Family Gift

A great way to save money on gifts is to create a group gift that an entire family can enjoy. Using the "gift of three" strategy you can create a fabulous gift that revolves around a theme such as "family fun together" and create a gift that keeps on giving. For example:

Central Gift: Microwave Popcorn Popper
Currently $19.99


Peanuts DVD Collection
Currently $22.99














Set of 10 Classic Board Games
Currently $15.42
















So there you have a gift that the entire family can enjoy for under $60. Depending on how many little ones are in the family, this strategy can save you a ton. Get creative with the theme! Just think of something the entire family can do together and build a theme around it! Any other ideas?

Do You Feng Shui?

In her new book, "Feng Shui ABC, Project for a Weekend," author Yvonne Phillips takes the mystery out of the ancient art of Feng Shui for those of us who just don't know where to begin! Ms. Phillips explains the basics from colors, symbols, tools, and elements. A perfect gift for the Feng Shui beginner, this little gem retails for $9.99 at is available at her website Feng Shui ABC 1.

I was particularly drawn to chapter 3 that talks about the influence that color has on our environment. Since I am a very visual person, this shouldn't come as any surprise! I was actually startled to learn that my office is pretty much set up to succeed, with my desk facing a beautiful red wall...Whoohoo!

I can't wait to start my weekend project! It really is much easier than you think...give it a try!

Mention that you found her book here and you will receive a FREE 10 minute Feng Shui telephone consultation! Just be sure to let her know the Gift Therapist sent you!

Get Shop Smart GIVE MORE for $1.99

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PS...I was an intern for CHP's Employee Assistance Program in the spring of 1993. My office was next door to the Gift Shop. At that point in time, the gift shop was the "go-to" place for fun and excitement. I am so excited and honored to be part of this fundraising initiative...the kids really deserve a fabulous game room! Play is good for the heart and soul!

Creating a Gift Giving Theme

To make your gift planning a bit easier, I have listed a sampling of gift giving themes that should stir your creativity for the holiday giving season.

Remember to focus on an experience that you would like to give rather than the gift itself.

Once you know what experience you’d like to share with someone special, the gift giving gets much easier…I promise! Be sure to apply the “Gift of Three” strategy to the gift giving themes listed below and you will be all set with a great gift at an affordable price! Let me help you get started.

Finish this sentence:

“I would love to give a gift that would make the recipient feel…”

Relaxed
Gift Ideas: Relaxation CD’s, serenity fountain, scented body lotion, bubble bath, scented soaps, massage oils, herbal tea, and/or a great book.

Sweet Indulgence
Gift Ideas: Chocolate coffees, gourmet chocolate candy or bonbons, chocolate chip cookies or cookie mix in a jar, and/or gourmet hot chocolate mix with a decorative mug.

Nostalgic
Gift Ideas: Vintage t-shirt, CD’s, itunes gift card, MP3 player, rock and roll calendar, gift certificate to the Hard Rock Café, concert tickets, and/or admission tickets to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.

Loved as a Family
Gift Ideas: Classic board games, movies, my family history book, scrapbook with supplies, deck of cards, event tickets, movie tickets, jigsaw puzzles and/or interactive video games.

Competent in the Kitchen
Gift Ideas: Cookbooks, recipe cards, kitchen utensils, kitchen towels, pot holders, monogrammed or novelty apron, and/or cooking spices.

Connected to their Heritage
Gift Ideas: Loaf of Tuscan or Italian bread, gourmet dried pasta, stick of pepperoni, gourmet pasta sauce, hunk of parmesan or Asiago cheese, gift card to an Italian restaurant and/or bottle of Chianti.

Happy to be Grilling
Gift Ideas: Grilling supplies, barbeque rubs, gourmet hot sauces, grilling cookbook, fresh jalapenos peppers, grilling apron and/or gourmet barbeque sauces.

Inspired
Gift Ideas: Inspirational book, angel figurine, angel bookmark, angel art print with inspirational verse, angel sun catcher, and/or angel jewelry.

Out and About
Gift Ideas: Movie or theater tickets, amusement park passes, sporting event tickets, golf course certificates, restaurant gift card, entertainment book, local event guide, satin evening bag, costume jewelry set and/or perfume.

Ready to Travel
Gift Ideas: Travel cases, makeup bags, toiletry case, shaving kit, travel size personal care items, passport holding wallet, destination guide books, disposable one-time use or underwater cameras, compact umbrella, travel iron, travel alarm clock, laptop case and/or carry on bag.

Warm and Cozy
Gift Ideas: Cozy fleece throw, electric blanket, herbal tea, fuzzy slippers, ergonomic neck pillow, fluffy bathrobe, box of chocolates, and/or a great book.

Current with Tech Trends
Gift Ideas: USB pen drive, computer games, computer software, Blank CD’s and DVR’s, digital photo frame, and/or gift card to their favorite electronic store.

One with Nature
Gift Ideas: Flower seeds, vegetable seeds, fresh flower bouquet, herb garden kit, gardening tools, gardening books, flower bulbs, decorative pots, garden gloves and/or small garden decorations.

Organized and Successful
Gift Ideas: Motivational calendar, day-time organizer, gourmet coffee or tea, leather pad folio, pen set, business card holder, leather journal, address book, USB pen drive, and/or stainless steel travel mug.

Connected from Afar
Gift Ideas: All occasion greeting and note cards, monogrammed stationary, book of stamps, pre-paid long distance phone card, fancy pens, greeting card organizer and/or address book.

Keep practicing and be sure to come up with your own themes! I would love to hear what you come up with!!! And by the way, the picture of the gifts above would make the recipient feel....

The Gift of Three Made Easy

It's go time, folks! We are in the thick of the holiday giving season and I'd love to make your gift giving a bit easier by sharing some tips to make your "gift of three" stand out among the crowd! The foundation of the "gift of three" strategy is to choose a central gift that will be the main focus of the gift and two smaller items that will pull the theme together. Remember...you are giving an experience. When you choose three items, the gift will "speak" that experience with little explanation necessary. Make sense? Good! And the good news is that your central gift does not have to be expensive! For example, the following gift ideas can often be found in the clearance section:

• Bargain Books
• Clearance Kitchen Items
• Gourmet Treats
• Close-out Toys and Games (They make wonderful family gifts!)
• Music and Movies
• Open box specials on home decor or glassware (Just take it out of the box and arrange in a basket with your other two items.)

Let's talk about open boxed items for a minute. Just because the box is a bit dinged up doesn't mean that you can't give it as a gift. Last year I found a beautiful (and cheap!) set of brandy snifters made by Waterford on the clearance rack for $7--no, I am not forgetting a zero. I took the snifters out of the box and made a gift basket that also included box of gourmet chocolates and bottle of Grand Marnier. This basket would normally retail for over $250, but I paid under $50 for the whole thing. Cheapskate gift? I think not...What do you think?

The Screaming Pillow: The Story

Sometimes when reviewing products I stumble upon a real gem. When introduced to the Screaming Pillow I immediately loved it. Being a therapist in a past life reminded me of the importance of letting out frustations in a fun and therapeutic way and this product really fit the bill. But behind the product is a great story, as inventor Gabrielle Yetter explains on her website:

"The Screaming Pillow was created after my sister, Katy Langaas, and her three-month-old baby, Sven, were killed in a car accident in South Africa.

Our mother, Colette Said, began receiving emotional support from The Compassionate Friends, a worldwide bereavement organization, whose counselors suggested she scream into a pillow to let out her emotions.

Years later, I created The Screaming Pillow as a novelty gift with a therapeutic benefit. The pillow provides an outlet for pent-up emotions – anger, pain, frustration, joy, excitement, fear – and, when not put to therapeutic use, becomes an unusual, decorative accessory.

The Screaming Pillow is a product of The Brightside Group, Inc., a company I created to remind people through our products that there can always be a positive way to see a negative situation and to encourage people to “look on the bright side”.

The name “Brightside” is in memory of Katy who was born in Brighton, England and whose maiden name was Said (pronounced “side”)."

Gabrielle

The next time you stumble upon a unique product or service, do yourself a favor and read the "about" page. You just might get inspired. Thanks Gabrielle!

Black Friday Shopping Tips

If you are a Black Friday shopper you'll want to take the following steps to prepare for the largest shopping day of the year! Get out your track suit and comfy clothes...it's time to get organized!

1. Get organized! Clean out your wallet to include only the cash,
credit cards and photo identification that you will need to make your purchases. Leave all unnecessary items at home to lighten your load, resist the urge to overspend, and protect against loss or identity theft. Creating a separate shopping wallet is a simple and effective way to keep your lists, cash, cards, and receipts organized throughout the holiday shopping season.

2. Play it safe! Keep a detailed list of the credit/debit cards that
you keep in your shopping wallet in a safe place at your home. Be sure to
include the card name, account number and customer service phone number. Should you lose your wallet or have it stolen, having quick access to this information will save you valuable time and stress should this unfortunate experience happen to you.

3. Pack a snack! The old rule "never go shopping hungry" still rings
true, especially while holiday shopping. During a long day of shopping,
keep your blood glucose balanced by nibbling on a granola snacks, protein bar, or homemade trail mix. These are healthy and filling treats that will boost your stamina, mood, and budget!

4. Dress for success! Minimize your morning primping and select your most comfortable clothes and sneakers to get the job done! Leave your
bulky coat in the car and rely on a fleece pull-over or hoodie to shield you during your long walk to and from the parking lot. You can always tie your hoodie around your waist later and still have two hands to manage all of your shopping bags!

5. Prioritize your list and shop backwards! Buy the small gifts first and big gifts last. Find great bargains by taking 10 minutes to browse the clearance racks first. Challenge yourself to come in under budget. Applying your savings toward the bigger purchases on your list, next year's gift budget or your favorite charity!

Check out my free holiday gift giving survival guide, ‘Giveology’ and learn how to spend less but give more!

Looking Beyond the Bear

While shopping in Goodwill today, I remembered a slick technique that can be used to make a practical gift quite fun. Remember the good old fashioned teddy bear? Well, this little fellow is sure to bring a smile to the recipients face when you give the following items:

Winter Gift Set: Put the hat on his head, the gloves on his paws and tie the scarf around his neck. Too cute!

Romantic Gift: Place the bracelet or necklace on the bear. Just be sure to secure it in some way so it doesn't fall off into the bottom of the gift bag! A straight pin will usually do the trick.

Gift Cards or Gift Certificates: Place the gift card inside an envelope. Be sure to poke a hole through one corner before placing the gift card inside. Thread curly ribbon through the hole, leaving enough slack to tie it around the Teddy Bear's neck. This technique also works very well for fundraisers, auctions or raffles. It really gets the gift card noticed!

I always visit Goodwill stores first when purchasing stuffed animals to use for this purpose. I only paid $3.99 for him and he was in pristine condition....new with tags! If you can't find a new bear, be sure to stock up on them at the end of the holiday season and store them away for future gift giving occasions. They really do come in handy and bring a smile to the recipients face!

Savory Hostess Gifts Under $20

First of all, please excuse the picture quality! My camera battery is dead and wanted to get a shot of this before I actually give this gift tonight! Using the "Gift of Three" strategy, I put together this little gift basket from my stash of goodies in my gift giving pantry. I have been stashing premade edible gifts and mixes in the event an unexpected party comes up and I just don't have the time to make something. Here is a super gift that I put together for a grand total of $16.79. The basket includes:

• Gourmet Olive Oil for $6.99
• Tastefully Simple Tuscan Sundried Tomatoe Dip Mix for $8.99
• A mini-loaf of Italian bread (it's fresh...I picked that up today!) for $.79
• Metal gift basket: Free. I recycled it :)
  

My guess it that we'll probably tear into the basket tonight because it has everything you need for a fun appetizer. Who doesn't love fresh bread and a savory dip? It's all here! Of course you can save even more money if you whip up a dried dip mix (recipe here) and loaf of bread yourself, but we all know that sometimes this just isn't practical. But if you plan ahead, the only out of pocket cost could be the olive oil...it's your choice!

The Gift of Beauty Under $20

Save money on a married couple by giving them a combined gift that they both can use and enjoy...sometimes that can be tough! But today at TJ Maxx I was inspired by these beautifully monogrammed washcloths that rang in at a mere $7.99 for a set of eight! This is a perfect example of a central gift for your "Gift of Three" strategy. What else could you give in addition to the washcloths that would really make this gift pop? I'm going with a couples theme, but you could also do this for a friend, relative or office mate. Here are a few ideas that I have....can't wait to hear yours!
Pick two from the list and you are done!

• A large bar or small set or organic soap
• His and hers hand lotion or antibacterial soap from Bath and Body Works (They are having a sale!)
• A decorative soap dispenser and soap dish to match
• A set of finger-tip towels

I was so excited about these that I bought a set for myself! My husband loves them, too! What are your ideas? How would you use these in your next "Gift of Three"...

For more great gift ideas, please download your free copy of Giveology and share it with your friends. Happy Giving!

Bargain Alert: New Bargain Websites for Fashionistas!

Thank you to Stevie Wilson from LA Story for sharing the following insider info for the bargain fashionistas among us! You know you have someone on your gift list that just loves the designer labels...but she doesn't need to know that you found her gift for a STEAL!

RowNine is an invitation-only website focused on helping you find luxury brands at member prices. Featuring luxury products from designers or authorized distributors and brand partners, members can save up to 80% on the finest luxury brands knowing that all products are guaranteed authentic complete with warranty. www.rownine.com

ShopStyle a new division of Sugar Enterprises (the online network of various web ezines and communities) has dropped into the shopping universe with an opportunity for members to become their own fashion editor or interior designer by featuring a variety of home furnishings and fashions for men, women and children. Devoted to featuring the most popular brands and cutting-edge designers, the search engine allows every store is open 24/7 for you to find the product, style, designer or even a color that you are seeking. One other aspect that is different from other stores is that ShopStyle allows users to create stylebooks and looks that can be shared on blogs or emailed to friends. (Will a FB app be far behind?) as well as group to share and draw inspiration.

Not so new and definitely not forgotten, ShopItToMe.com is must for all fashionistas who seek to find bargain prices on their favorite brands. This amazing search engine allows users to customize the fashions (women, men, children) presented in either daily or weekly emails that are specifically tailored to the sizes, items and brands that you have selected.

Stevie Wilson pens the LA-Story.com blog on Southern California lifestyle and trends and contributes to Gather.com. Her blog includes videos, podcasts and a sassy attitude featuring an eclectic mix of topics. Stevie is also an expert contributor for Giveology where she shares even more money savings websites for the budget conscious consumer. Download your free copy today and share with your friends! Follow Stevie on twitter @LAStory.

Giveology: A Gift Giving Survival Guide

I am so proud of this edition of Giveology. I am looking at it right now and am filled with such gratitude that I can hardly breathe! It took three long months to complete but the final results are amazing...I don't think you can find this kind of money saving and gift giving advice anywhere. Giveology really does have it all! And what did I do to earn the trust of my four fabulous contributors? Stevie, Aly, Kim and Julia...thank you for allowing me to share your voice and expert knowledge with the world. I am simply honored and humbled beyond belief. To my friends, supporters and unofficial editing team, THANK YOU! Expect a special thank you gift when you least expect it :) And praise the Lord for granting me with the patience, knowledge and resources that I needed to get this important publication out into the hands of the folks who need it the most. My prayers have been answered...AGAIN!


If you haven't checked it out yet, you can view your free copy of Giveology by clicking here. I am very anxious to hear your feedback and hope that you will share it among your friends and networks. This is great stuff and it needs to be shared! As always, thank you for visiting and being such an inspiration to me! God Bless and Happy Giving!

Surviving the Holidays: Simple Tips to Save Your Sanity

Today we kicked off the holiday season with a shopping fundraiser to benefit our local senior center. Although we had a great crowd and sales were good, I have to admit I heard a bit of rumbling--"It's too early to think about Christmas...it's not even Thanksgiving yet!"...I completely disagree, and this is why...

Much of the stress of the holidays is caused by procrastination and the lack of planning. The holiday season spans much more than one day, folks! The earlier you begin to shop, entertaining friends, and exchange gifts the less stress you will have during peak season! Here are a few tips to help you rethink your holiday giving strategy and enjoy the season from this moment forward.

• Sit down with your calendar and block off a few dates that you plan to have available to celebrate with extended family and friends. Get on the phone and coordinate a holiday visit, dinner, brunch, pot-luck or gift exchange (if applicable) as early as possible. Plan on exchanging any gifts on that date...even if it is next week!
• Stressed financially? Now is the time to re-evaluate your gift list and set a firm budget. Rather than cross people off of your list, consider an affordable lunch or breakfast party where you can enjoy a delicious meal together...go out, or cook in! Creating a new holiday tradition can save you money and enrich your relationships for years to come!
• Give holiday themed gifts BEFORE the peak holiday season! Examples include fresh evergreen wreaths, poinsettia plants, holiday centerpieces, and fashion accessories that can be enjoyed during the holiday festivities. Giving something with a holiday theme after peak season just doesn't make a lot of sense to me. To be very honest, the gift is most likely going directly into the attic or closet just to be forgotten until next year. Where is the fun in that?
• Strapped for time? Never feel obligated to spread yourself so thin that you can't enjoy the holiday season! Remember your favorite childhood holiday memories and build your holiday schedule around what makes you and your immediate family happy. Schedule post-holiday visits with those you were unable to see after the New Year. It will give you both something to look forward to without the added stress!

How do you keep sane during the holidays? Any great sanity saving tips that work for you? Please share in the comments below!

PS...this is my Mother, Jo Ann. As you can see, we share the same holiday spirit and avid sense of humor! She came out to the fundraiser today and got the party started! Love you, Mom!

Caring Questions by Jennifer Anktowiak

Just released by Pittsburgh Author Jennifer Antkowiak, "Caring Questions: Sensitive and Fun Conversation Starters for Caregivers" would make a lovely gift for the caregiver on your list. The author offers 150 important questions and conversation starters in 13 categories (ex: Stress Busters, Strength from Above, Whats More Important? Family Traditions). Written by Take Care Tips author and caregiver Jennifer Antkowiak, Caring Questions also teaches about the importance of effective communication in caregiving. This approach can be good medicine for all persons involved, as memories and feelings, laughter and tears, are given respect and appreciation a gently therapeutic process thats good for everyone.

A New Twist on Office Gift Giving

Not only are holiday gifts often difficult to choose for our office mates, they can also get expensive! Even if you have set a reasonable per person limit, those dollars can quickly add up and blow your entire gift budget if you are not careful. Here are a few "out of the box" strategies for you to consider this year. Have some great money saving suggestions of your own? Be sure to share your ideas and feedback in the comment section below!

The Office Survival Kit: Instead of buying individual gifts for everyone in the office, why not buy one large gift for your department or office mates instead? The office survival kit can contain anything that tends to always run in short supply. Be creative and have fun with the contents. Kleenex, paper clips, funky file folders, anti-bacterial hand gel, cough drops, aspirin, antacids...the sky is the limit! But don't spend a fortune! Set a reasonable budget and shop clearance racks, use coupons, and throw in new but unused items you may have in your supply closet. This gift will keep on giving well beyond the annual holiday office party, too!

The Office Splurge: Ask everyone to pitch in a portion of what they would normally spend on office gifts and buy a substantial gift that the entire office can use and enjoy! For example if ten people contribute $10 each, that $100 can be used to purchase a new microwave, deluxe coffee machine or perhaps a “donut day” once per month. (Sure beats the jelly of the month club)

Office Charity Challenge: Enlist the troops to create their own unique fundraising campaign during work time at the office. Participants must pay a $5 entry fee to be eligible to win the grand prize...half of the entry fees collected. The employee who raises the most $ for their favorite charity will be recognized at an office -wide holiday breakfast or luncheon (paid by the other half of the entry fees) where they may present their donation directly to representatives of their designated cause. A great way to celebrate the true meaning of the holiday season!

How to Give Great Gifts in a Bad Economy

The years of auto-pilot gift giving are now over. You know--buying gifts and not really paying attention to the price tag or genuine interests of the gift recipient. You found a decent gift, put it on your credit card, and just kept on spending what you didn't have until your gift list was complete. I remember those days all to well. When the bills rolled in during the month of January, I wanted to run and hide. What was I thinking? Yep...been there, done that. Never again!

Many of us (not all!) have all been guilty of this at one time or another. I always admired folks who would pull out their wallets and pay cash for things. Too bad I never felt that satisfaction until after I hit rock bottom and was forced to pay EVERYTHING with cash. It was tough, but I made it through--and learned a thing or two. For families who are facing this dilemma for the first time, I encourage you to see the gift in this valuable lesson. Accept the challenge to give more meaningful gifts (rather than expensive ones!) and watch the magic happen. It's a safe bet that not only will your gift giving skills improve, but the relationships that go along with them will improve as well. You can't put a price tag on that!

If you find yourself in a panic, don't fear! Before you run off to the mall, please consider the following gift giving truths:

• Gift giving is optional! When it becomes an obligation in your mind, it is no longer a gift. Think about it and re-visit your gift list. Are you giving gifts in order to avoid conflict, keep up with the Jones's, or keep the family peace? Never put the needs or expectations of others ahead of your own financial stability. There is no shame in speaking your truth and changing the rules this year. Speak up now and make no apologies. For example..."Our family is not in the position to buy gifts for extended family this year, but would love to have you over for a pizza and movie night when it fits your schedule." See how easy that was?


• Not all gifts are created equal. Be aware of what types of gifts are the most meaningful to important people on your gift list. Would your best friend prefer a sterling silver bracelet or a laid-back lunch at your favorite local cafe? Does your Grandmother really need an expensive gift set from Macy's or would she prefer an afternoon spent scrapbooking with you? If you don't know, ASK! You just might create a new tradition in the process.


• Gift giving is about them, not you! How many times have you given a gift expecting rave reviews but in return you get a luke warm response? Odds are pretty good that you have probably violated this rule. Just because you would love to receive a cashmere sweater coat does not mean everyone else wants one too. Take the time to research and find out what really makes them tick and do your best to give a gift that reflects it. A $25 gift card to Macy's is a great gift if you know that your BFF is saving up for that "must have" leather jacket she's been talking about. Just jot a note in the card that will add meaning to giving the gift card--"Your are going to look great in that new leather jacket...hope this helps you make that big purchase!"

Great gifts come in many shapes, sizes, and price tags. But never forget that the very best gifts strengthen our personal connections with one another, never to weaken them. Buying an expensive gift that misses the mark can really do some damage and change the dynamic of your relationship if not careful. Just stop, think, plan, and do your best connect while minding your budget. I promise you, you'll never loose.

What do you think? Can you relate? Please share your comments below and we can get the conversation going!

The Gift of Peace

The G20 is setting up shop here in Pittsburgh for the weekend and tensions seem to be running a bit high.  With photos circulating from G20 London, the realities of an event of this magnitude are difficult to conceive.  Our city will essentially be on a two-day lockdown, ensuring the safety for international dignitaries making their way to and from the convention center as well as residents and employees of the City of Pittsburgh. Yes, there will be a sea of protestors and increased police security along the motorcade route and throughout various locations surrounding the Pittsburgh area.  Plenty of media will fill the streets and Pittsburgh will be on the international stage for all to see.  But at what price?  Let's hope it's not too costly.  Money is one thing, safety and security for all involved is my primary concern.

I'm am hoping and praying for a very peaceful G20 summit in our beloved City of Pittsburgh.  Won't you please take a moment of silence and send some positive thoughts our way...we would love to see this go on our record books as a great thing for Pittsburgh, without the violence and destruction that comes along with such a polarizing world event.  Please pray for the health and safety of everyone involved, including the protestors who are passionate about having their voices heard. And for the public safety officials who will be monitoring this event to keep us all safe from harm.  Thank you!

Help this Gift Giver

Here's an email from a reader who is really stumped on a gift idea...My friend Traci would appreciate any feedback or ideas that you may have.  Here we go...

"We were invited to celebrate a 50th anniversary dinner for my husband's aunt and uncle...and the invite says "No gifts please..." Of course you know I'm going to show up with a gift anyways...any suggestions that you can solicit from your readers would be greatly appreciated. This couple is in their 70's, and live out in the country so they like simple things, the type of people who don't like to be fussed over... I thought about getting a nice looking tall plant in some kind of engraved pot with their anniversary date on it, or something like that....help!"

Personally, I love your idea of an engraved planter complete with a hearty plant to symbolize a healthy and hearty life together.  I'm sure you all have some creative ideas of your own, so lets hear them in the comments below! 

MAJOR News!

I just had to share this...please forgive my shameless self promotion :)

“You’re Hired!”

Local Business Woman Tapped as National Gift Giving Expert

for Upcoming Television Series

Jennifer Melnick Carota, a.k.a. the Gift Therapist, has been secured by Carolyn and Co. Media as an expert source for holiday gift giving on a budget. Advice from the Gift Therapist will be featured nationally on “Every Holiday,” an eight episode television series designed to help guide women through the hectic holiday season that will air this fall on three national network affiliates and cable giants Oxygen, We and Bravo. Jennifer will share expert gift giving advice, holiday entertaining tips, and shopping strategies designed to make holiday gift giving less stressful and much more fun!

Hosted by former Executive Vice President of Trump Enterprises, Carolyn Kepcher seeks to help women find solutions to daily challenges facing most busy women today. “Every Holiday” is Carolyn’s first effort back into episodic TV and will serve as a sneak peek for the launch of her company’s weekly series next fall.

In addition to the television series, the Gift Therapist will also serve as a contributor to Kepcher’s new website workherway.com, set to launch in October, 2009. More information and details coming soon…stay tuned!

Jumpstart to the Holidays

One size does not fit all when it comes to gift giving. Although household budgets may be a bit tighter this year, this does not excuse us from mindless giving! Just because you may find seven cashmere sweaters on the clearance rack does not mean that everyone on your gift list would love one! (Although I would not complain...LOL). So how do we combat the stress of giving the perfect gift on a shoestring budget? The key is to start planning now! For example:

• Make you gift list TODAY!  Don't procrastinate on this...the longer you wait, the harder it will become to narrow your list down and set your budget accordingly. 
• Start thinking of appropriate gifts that you would like to give to each person on your list.  Start jotting ideas down TODAY! 
• Are you scratching people off of your gift list this year?  Now is the the time to have an honest conversation with them about some creative alternatives to tangible gift giving.  Pick up the phone...TODAY!
• Planning on giving edible or homemade gifts this year?  Organize your recipes, craft supplies, and materials TODAY! 

The holiday giving season will be here before you know it!  Carve out a little time and money each week to help ease the stress of last minute shopping, baking and crafting.  Create a plan and get the entire family involved...make it fun, but get started TODAY!!!  Trust me...you'll thank me for it later :)

The Golden Rule When Shopping

I received a surprise in my inbox this morning and it was just too good not to share with all of you! My friend Leann Junker writes:

"I have been thinking about smart shopping for a while now that I no longer work and we are trying to "float the boat" on one income. I have one tip that you might add to your web site or think about when you're helping others. (Unless this is already included in your tips and I missed it.) I always try to be nice when I deal with people at stores. I believe in the Golden Rule and want my children to see me set this good example, so I am always nice even if a sales clerk is rude to me. I believe that being nice has "paid off" on a number of occasions. I'm sure this is nothing short of divine intervention, but there have been some examples lately where someone has thrown in something extra or given me a special coupon or let me in on some helpful information simply because I was friendly. And in return I genuinely show a lot of gratitude because in my situation every little bit helps. "

Indeed, Leann...this is wonderful advice that many of us take for granted! A little kindness and a smile can go a long way! Over the years, I have built very strong relationships with several clerks at my favorite shopping haunts. Because I treat them with respect and have fun with the experience, I seriously believe they look forward to helping me. Long before I was the Gift Therapist, I worked in various retail positions during high school and college. It is NOT an easy job! I still remember the customers who made my day a little brighter or made those long hours seem worth it in the end! Shopping can be a win/win from both sides of the counter if you keep the golden rule in mind! Thanks for your contribution, Leann!

Have you had a positive shopping experience by living the golden rule? If so, please share!

Back to School Stocking Stuffers!

GMA reported this morning that back to school sales figures are down this year. Expect to see a lot of back to school sales and loss leaders in the upcoming weeks. If you have taken my advice and have created a "gift" budget, now would be a great time to clean up on potential stocking stuffers and smaller gifts that have the potential to make a great compliment to your gifts of three (3). For example:

• Journals, pencils, and colorful binders make great gifts for college students all year long! Swoop them up when you see them on the clearance rack!


• Hoodies, jeans and screened t's are always a welcome gift for teens on your list. Take advantage of the huge sales in store and online.


• Organizational products like desk cubes, designer paper clips, and funky file folders make great gifts for colleagues at the office. Stock up now and give the entire office a giant basket to share as a holiday gift!

And don't forget to surf online and check out your favorite stores. Be sure to visit their sale or clearance section first! There are plenty of free shipping deals out there right now so be sure to take advantage of it!

How to Give the Perfect Gift

A good friend and colleague of mine recently introduced me to a wonderful and inspiring book that seeks to help couples enhance their relationships by examining the various "love languages" that people often use to express their love and gratitude for one another. After reading "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman, I had what Oprah would call an "Ah-ha" moment and quickly realized that these principles also apply to gift giving...as giving tangible gifts is identified as a love language in and of itself! What are the 5 languages and how do they apply? Lets look at the languages, first:

1. Words of Affirmation
2. Quality Time
3. Receiving Gifts
4. Acts of Service
5. Physical Touch

What love language do you speak? How do you show appreciation to people around you? Because we as humans tend to project our needs and desires onto others, the way we choose to give (and what gifts we tend to give) are usually reflective of the needs or affirmations we seek for ourselves...What we tend to "give" is a clear indicator or what we "desire". Ok...therapist hat off...

How does this relate to gift giving? It actually impacts successful gift giving in a major way. I believe it's safe to say that if you are reading this blog, you are very interested in giving "the perfect gift" to someone you love, which requires creativity, inspiration, and often times a lot of thought. By paying attention to the RECIPIENTS love language, you can pretty much ensure that your gift will be wanted, appreciated and a big hit. Never assume that because you prefer to receive tangible gifts that the recipient does so as well...they may have a completely different love language! Can you see how this relates to couples but also relates to showing our love to the world around us?

The moral of the story is...be open, observant, and sensitive to other's needs around you. Please don't buy an extravagant gift for someone who would much prefer a experiential gift with you, or a well thought out note of appreciation. By finding out the love language of another, we can take gift giving to the next level...and hit a home run every time! For more information regarding Mr. Chapman's book, please visit his site below! Happy Gifting!

PS..Thank you, Darla!!!



The Five Love Languages
How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate
Gary Chapman
Published by Northfield Publishers
http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/

Christmas in July

Times are tough and the holiday gift giving season is getting closer. What to do? Start planning your holiday giving now. Note that I said giving rather than shopping! Yes, we must factor shopping into the equation, but for now let's just concentrate on creating a strategic giving plan. It sounds so technical doesn't it? Don't fear...it's actually quite simple. But you need to start now and get your ducks (and dollars) in a row as soon as possible!

Here are are five tips that can help you plan for your holiday giving now and reduce the stress associated with giving the perfect gift:

* Set your holiday budget right now! Divide that number by 4 and figure out your monthly gift budget in cash. Can't aford your monthly total? REDUCE YOUR BUDGET!

* Create a holiday folder. I recommend a three ring binder with pocket inserts. Create sections that include Gift Lists, Budget, Receipts, and Recipes (more on recipes later!). Make out your gift list as soon as possible.

* Prioritize your gift list and begin shopping from bottom to top. I like to say "shop backwards." For example, if you have people on your list that you normally buy a small gift for each year, shop for them first. Challenge yourself to come in under budget on these folks. You can do this easily by following my "Gift of Three" strategy.

* Start shopping for smalle gifts all year long. While you are at the mall or your favorite discount department stores, keep your eyes peeled on the clearance racks. This is where you will find the best bargains on off season merchandise that would make a great birthday, holiday, or thank you gift. Stash in a gift closet or bin for easy access!

* Reduce you spending and increase your thoughtfulness by giving the gift of food! Again, using the Gift of Three Strategy, you can save a ton of money while looking like a gift hero! Choose your favorite recipe and prepare it in a sleek serving container that the hostess can keep. Attach the recipe, a recipe book, or serving utensil to tie the theme together. You'll be the hit of the party! For more great tips on giving the gift of food, please visit my new blog at www.justkeepthedish.com

For more free gift giving tips, advice, and ideas, please visit me online at www.theGiftTherapist.com. I would love to have you come on over and join the conversation! Good luck and Happy Giving!

Coach Boutique Sales and Discounts!

Love Coach bags and accessories but hate the steep prices? Check out my new Amazon Store where I have searched high and low for the coolest styles at the best prices! As always, when shopping online, be sure to do your research and make sure you are confident with the seller. Always check seller feedback before you purchase a high ticket item...or for any online purchase from Amazon or similar auction site. Great bargains are certainly to be had, but be smart about it and do your homework! Good luck and happy giving!

Holiday Immunity: Are You Feeling It?

When I was a little girl, my cousin Diane and I used to play dress-up all of the time. So much so, we decided to go trick or treating one day mid-summer just for the fun of it. Our neighbors were very good sports but our parents were mortified! Why would we ever consider doing such a crazy thing? We did it because it was spontaneous and fun...period. Our parents didn't embrace our explanation one bit. I believe I may have been grounded for it...LOL! But remembering their response led me to writing this post...have we become a society immune to celebrating holidays? And if so, why?

As the Gift Therapist, I receive tons of emails asking for gift giving help. Sometimes I receive long rants (I love to get those!) explaining why they feel compelled to buy a gift for someone they barely know or do not like...those really crack me up! But seriously....when did we become so neutral or angry about holiday celebrations?

I realize that not everyone feels this way...but I am hearing enough gruff that makes me wonder how and why all of this negativity is suddenly bubbling to the surface. I have some ideas that I would like to share with you as well as some potential solutions.

Reason #1: Holidays celebrations are usually centralized around the family unit. Since my Grandmother's generation, our family has been progressively shrinking and the traditions are slowly fading. Remembering how great things "used to be" can evoke depressing thoughts, thus creating a thin veil of stress over the holiday celebration...i.e. "Christmas will never be the same with Granny."

Reason #2: Families are much busier and stretched too thin. Increased work demands and two parent working households are now the norm. Who is going to have the time, energy and desire to pull it all together? Feeling the need to do it all, and the guilt of not wanting to do it all is very stressful...

Reason #3: Families are much more extended. Divorce, separation, step-families and step-children add even more stress to the mix. How many families can you reasonably visit (and enjoy visiting) in one day? And how do you set boundaries or allocate your time without hurting some one's feelings? Virtually impossible, yet we strive to do it all and dreading it...Even more stress...

Reason #4: Someone decided that tangible gifts were necessary to commemorate every holiday and special occasion and we bought into hook, line, and sinker. Well, some of us did...and are paying for it now with credit card debt or just plain old overspending for no reason at all. Did we really think that a tangible gift could really be a substitute for something simple, appropriate, and thoughtful? But some of us fell into this time saving (and money gobbling) trap just to cross that person off of our gift list...and now we can't afford to do that anymore...how do we explain that we will be cutting back this year?...Even more stress!

Reason #5: We are just plain bored with holidays due to one or more of the reasons listed above. We've conditioned ourselves through the law of diminishing returns...after a few years of holiday related stress syndrome, we just become numb...or worse, we check out completely. What used to be manageable has now become avoidable...holiday? What holiday?

Does this sound like you? Can you relate? I certainly can...been there, done that! Here are some things that I have done to bring back the joy and eliminate some of the stress that a holiday celebration can bring:

• I choose to celebrate with people who I have close relationships with and enjoy celebrating with. I no longer feel compelled to accept invitations from people who don't communicate with us on a regular basis. If you're not calling just to say "hi" or asking us to meet up for coffee date throughout the year, odds are you are not going to see us the "day of" a primary holiday...sorry...but I may buy you a small gift and deliver it to you at a later or earlier date out of respect for familie ties.
• I don't follow the rules...except for the golden rule, which I live and give by. I give what I can, when I can. I put as much thought into making both the holiday and gift giving fun for those who choose to celebrate with me. That strategy alone can work wonders for you!
• I look forward to creating my own traditions and holiday celebrations. I know that I can never recreate the past but I can certainly build from it! I think my parents were wrong when they punished me for my 'trick or treating in July" caper...it was fun, creative and memorable....even 30 years later.

What will you do to make your next holiday celebration more joyous, memorable, and worth celebrating? I am very anxious to hear your thoughts and comments...

Happy Giving!

No Fail Father's Day Gift Ideas

Skip the kitchy t-shirts, monogrammed golf balls, and personalized coffee mugs and give Dad a gift that he will really love and appreciate! Here are some ideas for that hard to buy for Dad on your gift list this year!

The Gift of Time: This year, we are spending Father's Day at a local racetrack and casino with my Father. Why? Because he just loves to go there! At 74 years old, I have learned over the years that another tie, tshirt, or coffee mug is just going to gather dust! Do something together as a family...cook his favorite meal, visit his favorite hangout or take in a ball game together. Make sure he knows this day is all about him and you'll hit a home run!

The Gift of Green: Is your Dad an outdoors man? Does he like to spend time puttering in the garden? Visit your local nursery and pick up some greens and tools that you can plant together as a family and watch the memories grow!

The Gift of Art: Handmade items from the little ones are always welcome and appreciated, especially if Dad is a great sport! Create a family night with a gallery theme and showcase all the love for Dad displayed strategically throughout your home. Leave no room untouched and include some handmade pieces of art from Mommy, too!

The Gift of Food: You knew I couldn't resist this one! Prepare Dad's favorite meal or send his favorite culinary indulgence across the miles. With hundreds of "of the month" clubs out there, you are sure to find a club that matches his taste! (I would personally skip the jelly of the month club, though...LOL) When in doubt, I go with Omaha Steaks....this is what my Dad will be getting this year...Bacon Wrapped Fillet Mignon ...



What are you giving your Father this year? Tell us...savvy shoppers want to know!

Product Review: The Hana Mini Flat Iron ROCKS!

I was skeptical yet excited when I received my new flat iron in the mail a few days ago. I just returned from a wonderful vacation in Cabo San Lucas and my hair was completely trashed from a seven day dose of tropical sun, salt water, and chlorine from a fairytale life of luxury...LOL. Before I tried my Hana Nano Mini, I had pretty much given up on flat irons. Although my hair is short, it is thick with a very funky wave that drives me insane!!! I am extremely happy to say that the Nano Mini blew my expectations out of the water...after ten minutes of use, my hair was perfectly straight, smooth as silk, and completely frizz free...FINALLY! I love this compact version (retail $70), but will definitely look into the full sized version as well because that should speed up the straightening process even more!!! My only complaint about the Hana Mini is that I received it too late...it would have been perfect to take with me on vacation!

The Gift of Three: Give the Hanna Mini with a styling brush, straightening serum and travel sized cosmetic bag for your favorite girlfriend on your list! She will rave about it for years to come! Happy Giving!

Help this Gift Giver!

This just in...a request for help from a loyal reader! Let's do our best to come up with a great gift for her to give her mom...

"Maybe you can help me out. My Mom says she doesn't want anything. She says this every year. I've made her scrapbooks, videos, homemade coupons, bought her jewelry, makeup, etc. She's a breast cancer survivor but doesn't like pink. She loves coffee but she's trying to cut back. She's also in school for her second master's degree so she's running low on spare time. She's 50+ years old and has 3 grand kids, but she's not into wearing anything that says "Grandma". Any suggestions for something under $40.00?"

At first glance, I would ask you what types of gifts does your mom normally give you? This is often a great clue to the types of gifts that she would like to receive! That being said, focus on an experience that your would like to give to you mom and build a theme around it! Instead of a tangible gift, could you take her and the kids out for ice cream or prepare her favorite meal? If she is pinched for time, perhaps a gift certificate to her favorite hair salon with some small pampering essentials that she can do in the comfort of her own home? If you want to go with a "school theme" would she appreciate a roomy but trendy tote bag to lug her gear or a comfy lap desk for her to use while she lounges with the family?

Readers...what do you think?

Knock Knock

So many of you have asked me where to find these fun office supplies, that I did a little research and found the best prices out there for you :) In case you don't know this about me already, I have a very sarcastic sense of humor and just love to give gifts that will make someone smile. Knock Knock products certainly fit the bill! Here are some of my faves, but please visit Perpetual Kid for a full selection of Knock Knock (and more!) at the best prices I could find!

Crap File Folders: $8.49 for a set of 6, two in each style


OMFG and ASAP Expandable File Tote: $15.99


Door Hanger, Office Edition: $6.99 for a set of three double sided hangers


Timing Task Clips: $7.99 for a set of 12, three styles each


Things You Must Do to Make Me Happy: $6.99 for a 60 page tablet


And last but not least...

Old School Sticky Set: $12.99


Knock Knock products really do make great office, graduation, or "just because" gifts. Indulge in the gift of laughter...you won't be sorry! For the best prices and selection, check out Perpetual Kid Happy Giving!

Mother's Day Gifts Under $50

It's not to late to find, buy, and give a unique gift to mom just in time for Mother's Day 2009! Check out some of my favorite gift items that I found online!

For a mom that loves the sun...

Boho Flower Beach Tote - $ 32.00
From: Room It Up

Fun Flower Towel & Sling Bag - $ 20.00
From: Room It Up

For a mom that loves to travel, mix and match any of these items!

Boho Flower Overnight Duffle Bag - $ 32.00
From: Room It Up

Boho Flower Garment Bag - $ 36.00
From: Room It Up

Boho Flower Travel Set $20.00
From: Room It Up

It's super easy to make a "Gift of Three" out of any of these choices. Just choose the "experience" that you would like to give to your mom and build a theme around that! Books, CD's and homemade goodies always make a great "go with" gift that can tie the theme together!

What experiences are you giving this year for Mother's Day? Please share your gift ideas below in the comment section! Happy Giving!

Priceless Gifts that Keep on Giving

Gift giving season is quickly approaching folks! And I'm not talking about Christmas, either. The spring months ahead will be loaded with holidays and special events that will sneak up on you quickly if you don't prepare. Here are a few scenarios and gift ideas to "go with" to give you a jump on the upcoming gift giving marathon that many fail to plan for this time of year!

For the Graduate: Teach your teen about money and stocks with "I'm a Shareholder" by the folks at Giveashare.com. For only $13.95, the gift of financial literacy is both practical and fun. It is designed to grab kid's attention with full, vivid colors, stunning graphics, and engaging exercises, This book targets kids ages 8-25 but many adults would find it informative, too...I sure did! Pair this book with a REAL share of stock (experts say that Wallstreet is on sale right now!) and you have a gift that will be memorable, and potentially lucrative! Choose a share that any teen would love: Disney, Nintento, Nike, Starbucks...the choices are endless. Prices vary, so shop around for a stock option that is in your budget range! Check out the book and stock selections at http://www.giveashare.com/!




For the Bride and Groom: Can't afford to buy something that's on the gift registry? Don't feel guilty! Just be sure to look at the registry and come up with a gift that will compliment their taste, style, and personality. Check out this personalized stamp that is both practical and fun for less than $50. Toss in some stationary and envelopes and you have a fabulous and classy gift that won't break the bank, but will also be used for many years to come!

For Mom and Dad: No one said that you can't combine gifts for Mother's Day and Father's Day. Just be sure to recognize them with a nice card or handwritten note on the "day of" and communicate to them that a joint gift is coming this year that they both can enjoy! Have parents that love to travel? How about this pair of passport wallets? Only $39.99! Toss in a few travel guides and travel sized toiletries and you have a pretty cool gift for under $50.

For Baby: Gift giving for new arrivals is so much fun, so get creative with it! I just love these BabyPack Pads by Buttoned Up...they are so cute and practical! From diapers to baby formula, antibiotic ointment to cotton swabs, or water bottles to kleenex, new parents will never the leave the house under prepared for any situation parenthood may bring.Only $6.99 each and would make a great complimentary gift to a diaper bag or stress reduction kit for the new mommy! Don't you just love these?

Have you found some creative and affordable gift ideas that you would like to share with our readers? Please tell us in the comment section below! Happy Giving!

Ballerina Booty Socks by Mud Pie

For the future ballerina, these little socks are just adorable. Why fuss with shoes when these little numbers can do double duty? So precious and quite affordable at $14.99 for a set of three. Incorporate these into a ballerina theme and give the gift of dance to the little one! Maybe you could find a tiny tu-tu or sparkly hair accessories. How cute would that be? Oh...what fun it is to dress little girls! What else could we add to this gift to make it really special? Please share your comments below! I can't wait to hear them!


Ballerina Booty Socks by Mud Pie™

A "Get Organized" Gift for Mom

I found a new favorite website! Organize.com
Just by their name you wouldn't think they would have gift ideas would you? I am happy to report they have a ton of unique, affordable and memorable gift options for everyone on your gift list! Like this beautiful magnetic organizer for only $14.99! Practical, fun and fully customizable. Throw in a cute pen, note cards, or a sheet of stamps...perfect gift of three! I have a hunch that I will be posting a lot of gift ideas from this website, so be prepared! And the they even have a clearance section...yipee! Check it out and be sure to tell me what do you think?
Clearance Items at Organize.com - up to 80% OFF!

Happy Giving!

The Gift of Kindness

(photo taken from www.kindnotes.com)

While working on a interview with Bargain Babe I stumbled upon a fabulous gift idea that you can either purchase online or get creative and make from your craft bin. Kindnotes has a full collection of customizable memory jars that would be a fabulous gift for Mother's Day, a special birthday or graduation gift. Starting at around $27, the idea is that you fill little envelopes with sentiments, memories or inspirational notes, place them into a keepsake jar or box, and the notes can be opened by the recipient every day. I just think they are really beautiful and can easily be replicated at home if you are on a tight budget. What else has caught my eye recently? Head on over to Bargain Babe and check out our interview on romantic gifts that won't break the bank! Enjoy and Happy Giving!

Gift Giving Dilemma: Suggestions for Brooke?

I just received this in my inbox today and wanted to give Brooke as much help as I could, so I decided to throw out this scenario to you and see what you creative folks come up with! Here's the dilemma...

"My parents' 30th wedding anniversary is coming up in early May. Obviously, this is a big one, and I would like to give them something special without spending a lot of money. They were planning a trip to the beach, but have cancelled it because, in this economy, they just don't have the $. I would have to ship the gift, as they live in NC and I am in PA. I know that they enjoy wine, but I'm not sure if shipping wine is a possibility. They also already have plenty of drinkware. My mom enjoys photography, gardening, nature, she also likes to cook. My dad is a pretty simple guy, he works, is very handy, and spends a lot of time out in the yard with my mom. Any ideas?"

Please share you comments below and help solve this gifting dilemma for Brooke!

Super Cute Personalized Notes

Who knew Walmart sold checks, note cards and personalized stationary? I sure didn't but found out when I opened my Wlmart bill this morning...LOL! After browsing the website, they certainly have a wide selection and you can utilize the "gift of three" formula easily with their products.

The design above is called "Honeysuckle" and they come 25 in a pack with envelopes and personalization for only $14.95. Coordinating accessories include matching return address labels (120 for $5.96) and notepads (set of two pads for $14.95)...all personalized! Pick one item within your price range and build a great gift theme around it. This would be a very nice gift for Mother's Day or Graduation Gift for someone going off to college.

Be sure to check the clearance racks at you local Staples or Office Max for small gifts like pretty pens, file folders, or paper clips that may compliment your selection. Maybe even throw in a sheet of stamps for that extra special person on your list...just be creative!

Please let me know what you think! Good luck and happy giving!

Do you have a gift giving dilemma?

Do you have a burning question or gift giving dilemma? We all get stuck on the perfect gift from time to time and I would like to help you! In fact, I believe we can all help each other! Post your question or gift giving issue below and let's all work together to come up with some solutions! Go ahead...fire away! I can't wait to hear from you!

The Gift of Three for Coffee Lovers

Ahhh...coffee! I love to give the gift of caffeine...LOL! This is super easy and versatile theme that can be given to virtually anyone on your gift list. Family, coworkers, or the hostess, use this theme when you're stuck for an idea! I guarantee the recipient will be impressed! Please share you ideas and comments below!

The Gift of Three for Mother's Day

Mother's Day is approaching quickly! Use the Gift of Three technique to make giving super simple and super special this year! Have a great gift theme idea? Share your comments below! We can't wait to hear from you! Happy Giving!

Virtual Shopping Spree

Bargain Shopping Tour at TJ Maxx and Marshalls: April 1st, 2009

Introducing "Keep the Dish"

New Foodie Gift Blog for Your Enjoyment! Come on Over and Check it Out!

Onesole Shoes: More Endless Possibilities

Starting at $98, these interchangeable shoes may seem pricey in the short term, but would definitely pay off in the long run. If you order online, you will recieve one shoe "bottom" with two additional tops of your choice. It's like getting three pairs of shoes for the price of one. With a huge assortments of additional "tops" to purchase from, this is another example of a great gift idea for you or the frequent traveler on your list. I would love to embarque on my Caribbean vacation with only one pair of shoes, wouldn't you? Check them out and let me know what you think! http://www.onesole.com/

Again, if you are in the Pittsburgh area, contact me and I will connect you with a local distributor who's prices are MUCH cheeper :)

Happy Giving

Onesole Shoes

The Miche Bag: Endless Possibilites

For the purse fanatic in all of us, the new Miche Bag has finally come to our rescue! What makes this purse so unique is the "build a bag" principle. You pick out a basic purse, choose coordinating shell, jazz it up with different handles, and you have the perfect purse to suit any occasion. Dress it up, down, or color coordinated to your favorite outfit by just changing the outside shell rather than switching purses all of the time! I absolutely love the gift giving potential of this bag. For example, purchase a basic bag and one shell for the holiday and then buy another shell for her birthday or special occasion. Next time buy her a different set of handles...Get it? The basic bag on the website runs at about $35 and the shells run for about $25. I had the opportunity to see and touch these bags in person at a recent fundraiser and I fell in love. These are very high quality bags! Especially perfect for travel or for a quick office to cocktail party switch-over. I think you will be hooked too. Check out the Miche Bag and be sure to let me know what you think!

PS... If you live in Pittsburgh and are interested, please contact me and I will put you in touch with a local distributor (and very good friend) who is currently running a promotional sale...props to you, Maureen!

Discount Gift Cards

Ok...this site is really cool. Not only can you sell your unused gift cards, but you can buy the ones you want from other sellers. Of course you would never buy a gift card with an odd balance to give as a gift, BUT you could purchase the gift card at the discounted rate and go buy the gift yourself from the store! For example, one of the sales running is 15% Bath and Body Works gift cards. A card with of value of $86.39 can be purchased right now for $73.43...a savings of $12.96! Sales change daily so be sure to go back and check often! Right now, the current hotlist includes Sports Authority, Brooks Brothers, Old Navy, Bath and Body Works, GAP, and Victoria's Secret. AND SHIPPING IS FREE! You can also build your own gift card and customize it with a family photo should you choose to purchase an actual card as a gift. Either way, a great gift idea that is simple, meaningful and also practical. Gift Therapist Approved!

The Gift of Self Help: Take Care Tips

Did you know that the Gift Therapist launched as a result of my appearance on the Jennifer Show during the holiday season of 2007. Before my appearance, I tagged myself as a savvy bargain shopper who could buy a complete outfit for under $50. Well, I appeared on the Jennifer Show and got to show off my bargain gift giving skills instead and the rest is history! I would not be here writing this (right now) had it not been for my friend, Jennifer Antkowiak! The Lord had serious plans for both of us and I'm proud to say that we became fast friends after that fateful day.

After a decade of knowing Jennifer Antkowiak as a newscaster on KDKA, I can personally report that her new book "Take Care Tips" is a valiant expose of her life, her struggles, and her passion for family far beyond what we were able to see on the network news. Here we see our real "Hometown Hero" in more than a two minute news production. We get Jennifer's undivided attention in an easy to read, ten chapter resource guide that readers may ingest and process at their own pace. (You won,t have to wait for the 11 o,clock news anymore!) Although I recommend you read the book from cover to cover, the book is designed to be a friendly companion to be used when you need it the most.

Ten minutes (or less!) is all it takes to "put on the brakes" and recharge yourself with one of over 100 tips that will help you be your best self, physically, emotionally and spiritually. After all, we all know that unless we take good care of ourselves, how can we expect to be a reliable caregiver to our loved ones? Jennifer encourages us to take time out of every day to take care of ourselves, no matter what! Leave the guilt at the door and make yourself a priority for at least ten minutes a day...and this book is bursting with practical and fun strategies that just may change your life, health and relationships with those you love for the better. From fitness tips to stress relief, this is the most comprehensive and practical book that I now have in my library. What a great gift! If Jen can do it, we can do it, too! Thanks Jen for fabulous gift idea with a message that really does keep on giving! Best of luck, love and blessings to you and yours! PS...check out Jen's website for more tips, recipes, videos, and advice on how to make your life easier! You may stumble upon some advice from yours truly :)

Gift Idea: The Gift of You
Central Gift: Take Care Tips by Jennifer Antkowiak.....$14.95
Added Gift 1: An assortment of herbal teas
Added Gift 2: A homemade goodie from your kitchen. Find some great ideas here!


Happy Giving!

The Gift of Food

Gifts from the kitchen always make a great gift but few folks feel confident enough to explore this popular and frugal gift outside of their own family. I have recently begun posting to a new blog that is dedicated to food gifts that are super simple, budget friendly, and a proven hit with my friends and family. I chose to focus around the narrow topic of beer bread because it is so simple to make and is very versatile to tweak...pretty much no-fail! So rather than take the focus from the bargain zone, I urge you to visit http://www.beerbread.blogspot.com/ and check out the easy recipies and gift ideas that I have had huge success with. Come on over and let me know what you think. We'll have plenty of fun talking about my favorite topic...great food! Enjoy and happy giving!

The Gift of Food

The Gift of Service

Tuesday evening I had the honor of being the MC for the Annual Salvation Army Award Dinner in Monessen, Pennsylvania. It was a lovely evening filled with a lot of positive energy and amazing people. One of the distinguished guest and honorees was Albert Lexie. I have known Albert for years and am humbled each time I am in his presence. Albert has spent the last 20 years shining shoes for charity. He travels daily to Oakland where he sets up shop at Children's Hospital and goes to work, donating all of his tips to the Patient Care Fund. Known as "Albert's Kid's," he has raised over $100,000 for this amazing cause. But there is a bigger story here. Albert is developmentally challenged and lives on only $10,000 per year....and he is such a happy man! His smile will melt your heart if you ever get the opportunity to meet him. It reminds me of when I was young and money really didn't mean all that much. Remember when your family, friends, and perhaps a trip to the Dairy Queen were all you needed to have a great day? That's how Albert lives his life, except the Dairy Queen trip is replaced with service to the less fortunate. Albert's efforts have not gone unnoticed...he was honored b Oprah Winfrey a few years ago for his incredible passion to serve the profoundly ill at Children's Hospital. Congratulations, Albert! Thank you for being a fantastic role model and inspiration to us all. May all of your dreams come true!

A Monday Morning Lifesaver: Shower Shock Caffeinated Soap

Don't laugh...but I am beginning to panic because I am running low on my Shower Shock supply. I always buy my husband an ample supply for Christmas, but for some reason, we are really tearing through the body wash and glycerine bars. Maybe it's been the long winter? Heck...we don't need an excuse...it's just a fun and invigorating way to start the day. The added caffeine doesn't hurt either. I'm not sure if the caffeine really works, but the fresh minty smell really is invigorating. I haven't found a soap or body wash yet that has come close. Wanna give it a try? Visit ThinkGeek Caffeine and browse around. They have a ton of great stuff at really cheap prices. Be sure and check their clearance section, too! Happy Giving!

Consignment Spotlight: The Savvy Fox

Since I have been in recovery from my retail addiction for over 10 years now, I wanted to share one of my favorite secrets to saving money on key wardrobe essentials...upscale consignment shopping. I ventured out today to the Savvy Fox Consignment store in McMurray, Pa. after getting the heads up from a good friend (thanks Tammy!)who is a fashion diva and fellow bargain shopper as well. I couldn't wait to check out the goods. What a fabulous store! The Savvy Fox carries upscale only clothing, furniture, antiques, and formal wear for a fraction of retail price. They are currently having a winter clearance sale and I walked away with two fabulous pant suits (one from Saks and one from Ann Taylor) for a grand total of only $15...YES! If you love Coach, Dooney and Burke, and Gucci...shoes, bags, wallets and accessories...you are in luck! Most were marked at under $100 and in pristine condition. For more information, here is the contact information:

The Savvy Fox of Peters
3855 Washington Road
McMurray, Pa 15317
724.942.5121

Store Hours
Tues - Fri: 11-5
Sat: 10-5
Sun: 12-4
Mon: Closed

Good Luck and Happy Giving!

The Gift of Spring

I don't know about you ladies, but I am ready for some consistently warm weather! This 40 degree rainy weather is really working on my last nerve! In between appointments today (that means connecting with new and old friends~) I decided to take in a little retail therapy at our local Gabriel Brothers and check out the giant toy sale they have going on...the place was packed! I got diverted by the crowd and wound up in front of a display unit filled with beautiful sandals from Ann Taylor Loft. I am a sucker for great shoes, especially those that sing "summer is coming!"...These lovely gold and silver metallic flats immediately caught my eye, and guess what? They were my size...gotta love that when that happens. It's like a sign from God telling me to go ahead and treat myself to a special gift...that I deserve it :) No problem taking Him up on that offer! They were only $4.99...JACKPOT! Many styles and colors are still available, but I warn you they will go fast! Now go get your spring fix on..you deserve it!

PS...these would make a great gift when combined with a beach towel and beach bag, don't you think? Mother's day is right around the corner! Happy Giving!

The Gift of Song

One of the happiest and memorable experiences of my life was choosing the song list for my wedding. Both my husband and I have a passion for music and we spent weeks researching and compiling only the best music for our special day. It reminded me of the early 80's when I would make mix tape after mix tape...all with different themes to celebrate different occasions. The music spoke to me then and does still to this day :) With computers, color printers, and digital music, now we can make great gifts right from our desktop in just a few clicks of the mouse. I'm loving that! And to capture memories in the form of song and pass them along to someone special is priceless...really! Very little from the wallet, but a ton from the heart!

Have you made a custom CD for anyone lately? If so I would love to hear about it! What was the occasion? What were the songs?

Gift Planning for Mother's Day

In my neck of the woods, Easter is a pretty popular holiday. If you don't celebrate Easter, don't bypass the pastel drenched holiday isles at your favorite retail store just yet! While shopping today at Gabriel Brothers, I noticed a lot of Easter/spring merchandise that could easily double for Mother's Day gifts.

For example, pastel kitchen towels, aprons, table cloths, linens, scented candles all lined up all together in the Easter merchandise. Of course these items will go on sale right after the holiday, but I would shop now for the best selection!

If you are giving a gift card to mom this year, pick up a small item or two that compliments the type of gift card you are giving. Just shave $5 off of the value of the gift card and scour the clearance racks for one or two small gifts to go with...this technique will make your gift more thoughtful and memorable. After all...isn't mom worth it?

Good Luck and Happy Giving!

Huge Sale for Baby at Gabe's This Week!

It' s time again of the Annual Baby Fair at Gabriel Brothers! I was there earlier today and they are busy setting up shop! Here are a few of the promoted sales for you to look forward to!
SAVINGS LIKE THESE, AND SO-O-O-O MUCH MORE:

• Snuggly blankets: $3.99 to $5.99
• Layettes, clothing sets & separates: $1.50 to $6.99
• Shoes & booties: from $1.99
• Teethers, bath & safety accessories: 2 for $3
• Pacifiers & feeding accessories: 2 for $4
  
  (Per their sales flier, these are examples only. Styles will vary by store)

To find a store near you, please visit www.gabrielbrothers.com

Happy Giving!