Surviving the Holidays: Simple Tips to Save Your Sanity

Today we kicked off the holiday season with a shopping fundraiser to benefit our local senior center. Although we had a great crowd and sales were good, I have to admit I heard a bit of rumbling--"It's too early to think about Christmas...it's not even Thanksgiving yet!"...I completely disagree, and this is why...

Much of the stress of the holidays is caused by procrastination and the lack of planning. The holiday season spans much more than one day, folks! The earlier you begin to shop, entertaining friends, and exchange gifts the less stress you will have during peak season! Here are a few tips to help you rethink your holiday giving strategy and enjoy the season from this moment forward.

• Sit down with your calendar and block off a few dates that you plan to have available to celebrate with extended family and friends. Get on the phone and coordinate a holiday visit, dinner, brunch, pot-luck or gift exchange (if applicable) as early as possible. Plan on exchanging any gifts on that date...even if it is next week!
• Stressed financially? Now is the time to re-evaluate your gift list and set a firm budget. Rather than cross people off of your list, consider an affordable lunch or breakfast party where you can enjoy a delicious meal together...go out, or cook in! Creating a new holiday tradition can save you money and enrich your relationships for years to come!
• Give holiday themed gifts BEFORE the peak holiday season! Examples include fresh evergreen wreaths, poinsettia plants, holiday centerpieces, and fashion accessories that can be enjoyed during the holiday festivities. Giving something with a holiday theme after peak season just doesn't make a lot of sense to me. To be very honest, the gift is most likely going directly into the attic or closet just to be forgotten until next year. Where is the fun in that?
• Strapped for time? Never feel obligated to spread yourself so thin that you can't enjoy the holiday season! Remember your favorite childhood holiday memories and build your holiday schedule around what makes you and your immediate family happy. Schedule post-holiday visits with those you were unable to see after the New Year. It will give you both something to look forward to without the added stress!

How do you keep sane during the holidays? Any great sanity saving tips that work for you? Please share in the comments below!

PS...this is my Mother, Jo Ann. As you can see, we share the same holiday spirit and avid sense of humor! She came out to the fundraiser today and got the party started! Love you, Mom!

Caring Questions by Jennifer Anktowiak

Just released by Pittsburgh Author Jennifer Antkowiak, "Caring Questions: Sensitive and Fun Conversation Starters for Caregivers" would make a lovely gift for the caregiver on your list. The author offers 150 important questions and conversation starters in 13 categories (ex: Stress Busters, Strength from Above, Whats More Important? Family Traditions). Written by Take Care Tips author and caregiver Jennifer Antkowiak, Caring Questions also teaches about the importance of effective communication in caregiving. This approach can be good medicine for all persons involved, as memories and feelings, laughter and tears, are given respect and appreciation a gently therapeutic process thats good for everyone.

A New Twist on Office Gift Giving

Not only are holiday gifts often difficult to choose for our office mates, they can also get expensive! Even if you have set a reasonable per person limit, those dollars can quickly add up and blow your entire gift budget if you are not careful. Here are a few "out of the box" strategies for you to consider this year. Have some great money saving suggestions of your own? Be sure to share your ideas and feedback in the comment section below!

The Office Survival Kit: Instead of buying individual gifts for everyone in the office, why not buy one large gift for your department or office mates instead? The office survival kit can contain anything that tends to always run in short supply. Be creative and have fun with the contents. Kleenex, paper clips, funky file folders, anti-bacterial hand gel, cough drops, aspirin, antacids...the sky is the limit! But don't spend a fortune! Set a reasonable budget and shop clearance racks, use coupons, and throw in new but unused items you may have in your supply closet. This gift will keep on giving well beyond the annual holiday office party, too!

The Office Splurge: Ask everyone to pitch in a portion of what they would normally spend on office gifts and buy a substantial gift that the entire office can use and enjoy! For example if ten people contribute $10 each, that $100 can be used to purchase a new microwave, deluxe coffee machine or perhaps a “donut day” once per month. (Sure beats the jelly of the month club)

Office Charity Challenge: Enlist the troops to create their own unique fundraising campaign during work time at the office. Participants must pay a $5 entry fee to be eligible to win the grand prize...half of the entry fees collected. The employee who raises the most $ for their favorite charity will be recognized at an office -wide holiday breakfast or luncheon (paid by the other half of the entry fees) where they may present their donation directly to representatives of their designated cause. A great way to celebrate the true meaning of the holiday season!

How to Give Great Gifts in a Bad Economy

The years of auto-pilot gift giving are now over. You know--buying gifts and not really paying attention to the price tag or genuine interests of the gift recipient. You found a decent gift, put it on your credit card, and just kept on spending what you didn't have until your gift list was complete. I remember those days all to well. When the bills rolled in during the month of January, I wanted to run and hide. What was I thinking? Yep...been there, done that. Never again!

Many of us (not all!) have all been guilty of this at one time or another. I always admired folks who would pull out their wallets and pay cash for things. Too bad I never felt that satisfaction until after I hit rock bottom and was forced to pay EVERYTHING with cash. It was tough, but I made it through--and learned a thing or two. For families who are facing this dilemma for the first time, I encourage you to see the gift in this valuable lesson. Accept the challenge to give more meaningful gifts (rather than expensive ones!) and watch the magic happen. It's a safe bet that not only will your gift giving skills improve, but the relationships that go along with them will improve as well. You can't put a price tag on that!

If you find yourself in a panic, don't fear! Before you run off to the mall, please consider the following gift giving truths:

• Gift giving is optional! When it becomes an obligation in your mind, it is no longer a gift. Think about it and re-visit your gift list. Are you giving gifts in order to avoid conflict, keep up with the Jones's, or keep the family peace? Never put the needs or expectations of others ahead of your own financial stability. There is no shame in speaking your truth and changing the rules this year. Speak up now and make no apologies. For example..."Our family is not in the position to buy gifts for extended family this year, but would love to have you over for a pizza and movie night when it fits your schedule." See how easy that was?


• Not all gifts are created equal. Be aware of what types of gifts are the most meaningful to important people on your gift list. Would your best friend prefer a sterling silver bracelet or a laid-back lunch at your favorite local cafe? Does your Grandmother really need an expensive gift set from Macy's or would she prefer an afternoon spent scrapbooking with you? If you don't know, ASK! You just might create a new tradition in the process.


• Gift giving is about them, not you! How many times have you given a gift expecting rave reviews but in return you get a luke warm response? Odds are pretty good that you have probably violated this rule. Just because you would love to receive a cashmere sweater coat does not mean everyone else wants one too. Take the time to research and find out what really makes them tick and do your best to give a gift that reflects it. A $25 gift card to Macy's is a great gift if you know that your BFF is saving up for that "must have" leather jacket she's been talking about. Just jot a note in the card that will add meaning to giving the gift card--"Your are going to look great in that new leather jacket...hope this helps you make that big purchase!"

Great gifts come in many shapes, sizes, and price tags. But never forget that the very best gifts strengthen our personal connections with one another, never to weaken them. Buying an expensive gift that misses the mark can really do some damage and change the dynamic of your relationship if not careful. Just stop, think, plan, and do your best connect while minding your budget. I promise you, you'll never loose.

What do you think? Can you relate? Please share your comments below and we can get the conversation going!

The Gift of Peace

The G20 is setting up shop here in Pittsburgh for the weekend and tensions seem to be running a bit high.  With photos circulating from G20 London, the realities of an event of this magnitude are difficult to conceive.  Our city will essentially be on a two-day lockdown, ensuring the safety for international dignitaries making their way to and from the convention center as well as residents and employees of the City of Pittsburgh. Yes, there will be a sea of protestors and increased police security along the motorcade route and throughout various locations surrounding the Pittsburgh area.  Plenty of media will fill the streets and Pittsburgh will be on the international stage for all to see.  But at what price?  Let's hope it's not too costly.  Money is one thing, safety and security for all involved is my primary concern.

I'm am hoping and praying for a very peaceful G20 summit in our beloved City of Pittsburgh.  Won't you please take a moment of silence and send some positive thoughts our way...we would love to see this go on our record books as a great thing for Pittsburgh, without the violence and destruction that comes along with such a polarizing world event.  Please pray for the health and safety of everyone involved, including the protestors who are passionate about having their voices heard. And for the public safety officials who will be monitoring this event to keep us all safe from harm.  Thank you!

Help this Gift Giver

Here's an email from a reader who is really stumped on a gift idea...My friend Traci would appreciate any feedback or ideas that you may have.  Here we go...

"We were invited to celebrate a 50th anniversary dinner for my husband's aunt and uncle...and the invite says "No gifts please..." Of course you know I'm going to show up with a gift anyways...any suggestions that you can solicit from your readers would be greatly appreciated. This couple is in their 70's, and live out in the country so they like simple things, the type of people who don't like to be fussed over... I thought about getting a nice looking tall plant in some kind of engraved pot with their anniversary date on it, or something like that....help!"

Personally, I love your idea of an engraved planter complete with a hearty plant to symbolize a healthy and hearty life together.  I'm sure you all have some creative ideas of your own, so lets hear them in the comments below! 

MAJOR News!

I just had to share this...please forgive my shameless self promotion :)

“You’re Hired!”

Local Business Woman Tapped as National Gift Giving Expert

for Upcoming Television Series

Jennifer Melnick Carota, a.k.a. the Gift Therapist, has been secured by Carolyn and Co. Media as an expert source for holiday gift giving on a budget. Advice from the Gift Therapist will be featured nationally on “Every Holiday,” an eight episode television series designed to help guide women through the hectic holiday season that will air this fall on three national network affiliates and cable giants Oxygen, We and Bravo. Jennifer will share expert gift giving advice, holiday entertaining tips, and shopping strategies designed to make holiday gift giving less stressful and much more fun!

Hosted by former Executive Vice President of Trump Enterprises, Carolyn Kepcher seeks to help women find solutions to daily challenges facing most busy women today. “Every Holiday” is Carolyn’s first effort back into episodic TV and will serve as a sneak peek for the launch of her company’s weekly series next fall.

In addition to the television series, the Gift Therapist will also serve as a contributor to Kepcher’s new website workherway.com, set to launch in October, 2009. More information and details coming soon…stay tuned!

Jumpstart to the Holidays

One size does not fit all when it comes to gift giving. Although household budgets may be a bit tighter this year, this does not excuse us from mindless giving! Just because you may find seven cashmere sweaters on the clearance rack does not mean that everyone on your gift list would love one! (Although I would not complain...LOL). So how do we combat the stress of giving the perfect gift on a shoestring budget? The key is to start planning now! For example:

• Make you gift list TODAY!  Don't procrastinate on this...the longer you wait, the harder it will become to narrow your list down and set your budget accordingly. 
• Start thinking of appropriate gifts that you would like to give to each person on your list.  Start jotting ideas down TODAY! 
• Are you scratching people off of your gift list this year?  Now is the the time to have an honest conversation with them about some creative alternatives to tangible gift giving.  Pick up the phone...TODAY!
• Planning on giving edible or homemade gifts this year?  Organize your recipes, craft supplies, and materials TODAY! 

The holiday giving season will be here before you know it!  Carve out a little time and money each week to help ease the stress of last minute shopping, baking and crafting.  Create a plan and get the entire family involved...make it fun, but get started TODAY!!!  Trust me...you'll thank me for it later :)

The Golden Rule When Shopping

I received a surprise in my inbox this morning and it was just too good not to share with all of you! My friend Leann Junker writes:

"I have been thinking about smart shopping for a while now that I no longer work and we are trying to "float the boat" on one income. I have one tip that you might add to your web site or think about when you're helping others. (Unless this is already included in your tips and I missed it.) I always try to be nice when I deal with people at stores. I believe in the Golden Rule and want my children to see me set this good example, so I am always nice even if a sales clerk is rude to me. I believe that being nice has "paid off" on a number of occasions. I'm sure this is nothing short of divine intervention, but there have been some examples lately where someone has thrown in something extra or given me a special coupon or let me in on some helpful information simply because I was friendly. And in return I genuinely show a lot of gratitude because in my situation every little bit helps. "

Indeed, Leann...this is wonderful advice that many of us take for granted! A little kindness and a smile can go a long way! Over the years, I have built very strong relationships with several clerks at my favorite shopping haunts. Because I treat them with respect and have fun with the experience, I seriously believe they look forward to helping me. Long before I was the Gift Therapist, I worked in various retail positions during high school and college. It is NOT an easy job! I still remember the customers who made my day a little brighter or made those long hours seem worth it in the end! Shopping can be a win/win from both sides of the counter if you keep the golden rule in mind! Thanks for your contribution, Leann!

Have you had a positive shopping experience by living the golden rule? If so, please share!

Back to School Stocking Stuffers!

GMA reported this morning that back to school sales figures are down this year. Expect to see a lot of back to school sales and loss leaders in the upcoming weeks. If you have taken my advice and have created a "gift" budget, now would be a great time to clean up on potential stocking stuffers and smaller gifts that have the potential to make a great compliment to your gifts of three (3). For example:

• Journals, pencils, and colorful binders make great gifts for college students all year long! Swoop them up when you see them on the clearance rack!


• Hoodies, jeans and screened t's are always a welcome gift for teens on your list. Take advantage of the huge sales in store and online.


• Organizational products like desk cubes, designer paper clips, and funky file folders make great gifts for colleagues at the office. Stock up now and give the entire office a giant basket to share as a holiday gift!

And don't forget to surf online and check out your favorite stores. Be sure to visit their sale or clearance section first! There are plenty of free shipping deals out there right now so be sure to take advantage of it!

How to Give the Perfect Gift

A good friend and colleague of mine recently introduced me to a wonderful and inspiring book that seeks to help couples enhance their relationships by examining the various "love languages" that people often use to express their love and gratitude for one another. After reading "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman, I had what Oprah would call an "Ah-ha" moment and quickly realized that these principles also apply to gift giving...as giving tangible gifts is identified as a love language in and of itself! What are the 5 languages and how do they apply? Lets look at the languages, first:

1. Words of Affirmation
2. Quality Time
3. Receiving Gifts
4. Acts of Service
5. Physical Touch

What love language do you speak? How do you show appreciation to people around you? Because we as humans tend to project our needs and desires onto others, the way we choose to give (and what gifts we tend to give) are usually reflective of the needs or affirmations we seek for ourselves...What we tend to "give" is a clear indicator or what we "desire". Ok...therapist hat off...

How does this relate to gift giving? It actually impacts successful gift giving in a major way. I believe it's safe to say that if you are reading this blog, you are very interested in giving "the perfect gift" to someone you love, which requires creativity, inspiration, and often times a lot of thought. By paying attention to the RECIPIENTS love language, you can pretty much ensure that your gift will be wanted, appreciated and a big hit. Never assume that because you prefer to receive tangible gifts that the recipient does so as well...they may have a completely different love language! Can you see how this relates to couples but also relates to showing our love to the world around us?

The moral of the story is...be open, observant, and sensitive to other's needs around you. Please don't buy an extravagant gift for someone who would much prefer a experiential gift with you, or a well thought out note of appreciation. By finding out the love language of another, we can take gift giving to the next level...and hit a home run every time! For more information regarding Mr. Chapman's book, please visit his site below! Happy Gifting!

PS..Thank you, Darla!!!



The Five Love Languages
How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate
Gary Chapman
Published by Northfield Publishers
http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/

Christmas in July

Times are tough and the holiday gift giving season is getting closer. What to do? Start planning your holiday giving now. Note that I said giving rather than shopping! Yes, we must factor shopping into the equation, but for now let's just concentrate on creating a strategic giving plan. It sounds so technical doesn't it? Don't fear...it's actually quite simple. But you need to start now and get your ducks (and dollars) in a row as soon as possible!

Here are are five tips that can help you plan for your holiday giving now and reduce the stress associated with giving the perfect gift:

* Set your holiday budget right now! Divide that number by 4 and figure out your monthly gift budget in cash. Can't aford your monthly total? REDUCE YOUR BUDGET!

* Create a holiday folder. I recommend a three ring binder with pocket inserts. Create sections that include Gift Lists, Budget, Receipts, and Recipes (more on recipes later!). Make out your gift list as soon as possible.

* Prioritize your gift list and begin shopping from bottom to top. I like to say "shop backwards." For example, if you have people on your list that you normally buy a small gift for each year, shop for them first. Challenge yourself to come in under budget on these folks. You can do this easily by following my "Gift of Three" strategy.

* Start shopping for smalle gifts all year long. While you are at the mall or your favorite discount department stores, keep your eyes peeled on the clearance racks. This is where you will find the best bargains on off season merchandise that would make a great birthday, holiday, or thank you gift. Stash in a gift closet or bin for easy access!

* Reduce you spending and increase your thoughtfulness by giving the gift of food! Again, using the Gift of Three Strategy, you can save a ton of money while looking like a gift hero! Choose your favorite recipe and prepare it in a sleek serving container that the hostess can keep. Attach the recipe, a recipe book, or serving utensil to tie the theme together. You'll be the hit of the party! For more great tips on giving the gift of food, please visit my new blog at www.justkeepthedish.com

For more free gift giving tips, advice, and ideas, please visit me online at www.theGiftTherapist.com. I would love to have you come on over and join the conversation! Good luck and Happy Giving!

Coach Boutique Sales and Discounts!

Love Coach bags and accessories but hate the steep prices? Check out my new Amazon Store where I have searched high and low for the coolest styles at the best prices! As always, when shopping online, be sure to do your research and make sure you are confident with the seller. Always check seller feedback before you purchase a high ticket item...or for any online purchase from Amazon or similar auction site. Great bargains are certainly to be had, but be smart about it and do your homework! Good luck and happy giving!

Holiday Immunity: Are You Feeling It?

When I was a little girl, my cousin Diane and I used to play dress-up all of the time. So much so, we decided to go trick or treating one day mid-summer just for the fun of it. Our neighbors were very good sports but our parents were mortified! Why would we ever consider doing such a crazy thing? We did it because it was spontaneous and fun...period. Our parents didn't embrace our explanation one bit. I believe I may have been grounded for it...LOL! But remembering their response led me to writing this post...have we become a society immune to celebrating holidays? And if so, why?

As the Gift Therapist, I receive tons of emails asking for gift giving help. Sometimes I receive long rants (I love to get those!) explaining why they feel compelled to buy a gift for someone they barely know or do not like...those really crack me up! But seriously....when did we become so neutral or angry about holiday celebrations?

I realize that not everyone feels this way...but I am hearing enough gruff that makes me wonder how and why all of this negativity is suddenly bubbling to the surface. I have some ideas that I would like to share with you as well as some potential solutions.

Reason #1: Holidays celebrations are usually centralized around the family unit. Since my Grandmother's generation, our family has been progressively shrinking and the traditions are slowly fading. Remembering how great things "used to be" can evoke depressing thoughts, thus creating a thin veil of stress over the holiday celebration...i.e. "Christmas will never be the same with Granny."

Reason #2: Families are much busier and stretched too thin. Increased work demands and two parent working households are now the norm. Who is going to have the time, energy and desire to pull it all together? Feeling the need to do it all, and the guilt of not wanting to do it all is very stressful...

Reason #3: Families are much more extended. Divorce, separation, step-families and step-children add even more stress to the mix. How many families can you reasonably visit (and enjoy visiting) in one day? And how do you set boundaries or allocate your time without hurting some one's feelings? Virtually impossible, yet we strive to do it all and dreading it...Even more stress...

Reason #4: Someone decided that tangible gifts were necessary to commemorate every holiday and special occasion and we bought into hook, line, and sinker. Well, some of us did...and are paying for it now with credit card debt or just plain old overspending for no reason at all. Did we really think that a tangible gift could really be a substitute for something simple, appropriate, and thoughtful? But some of us fell into this time saving (and money gobbling) trap just to cross that person off of our gift list...and now we can't afford to do that anymore...how do we explain that we will be cutting back this year?...Even more stress!

Reason #5: We are just plain bored with holidays due to one or more of the reasons listed above. We've conditioned ourselves through the law of diminishing returns...after a few years of holiday related stress syndrome, we just become numb...or worse, we check out completely. What used to be manageable has now become avoidable...holiday? What holiday?

Does this sound like you? Can you relate? I certainly can...been there, done that! Here are some things that I have done to bring back the joy and eliminate some of the stress that a holiday celebration can bring:

• I choose to celebrate with people who I have close relationships with and enjoy celebrating with. I no longer feel compelled to accept invitations from people who don't communicate with us on a regular basis. If you're not calling just to say "hi" or asking us to meet up for coffee date throughout the year, odds are you are not going to see us the "day of" a primary holiday...sorry...but I may buy you a small gift and deliver it to you at a later or earlier date out of respect for familie ties.
• I don't follow the rules...except for the golden rule, which I live and give by. I give what I can, when I can. I put as much thought into making both the holiday and gift giving fun for those who choose to celebrate with me. That strategy alone can work wonders for you!
• I look forward to creating my own traditions and holiday celebrations. I know that I can never recreate the past but I can certainly build from it! I think my parents were wrong when they punished me for my 'trick or treating in July" caper...it was fun, creative and memorable....even 30 years later.

What will you do to make your next holiday celebration more joyous, memorable, and worth celebrating? I am very anxious to hear your thoughts and comments...

Happy Giving!

No Fail Father's Day Gift Ideas

Skip the kitchy t-shirts, monogrammed golf balls, and personalized coffee mugs and give Dad a gift that he will really love and appreciate! Here are some ideas for that hard to buy for Dad on your gift list this year!

The Gift of Time: This year, we are spending Father's Day at a local racetrack and casino with my Father. Why? Because he just loves to go there! At 74 years old, I have learned over the years that another tie, tshirt, or coffee mug is just going to gather dust! Do something together as a family...cook his favorite meal, visit his favorite hangout or take in a ball game together. Make sure he knows this day is all about him and you'll hit a home run!

The Gift of Green: Is your Dad an outdoors man? Does he like to spend time puttering in the garden? Visit your local nursery and pick up some greens and tools that you can plant together as a family and watch the memories grow!

The Gift of Art: Handmade items from the little ones are always welcome and appreciated, especially if Dad is a great sport! Create a family night with a gallery theme and showcase all the love for Dad displayed strategically throughout your home. Leave no room untouched and include some handmade pieces of art from Mommy, too!

The Gift of Food: You knew I couldn't resist this one! Prepare Dad's favorite meal or send his favorite culinary indulgence across the miles. With hundreds of "of the month" clubs out there, you are sure to find a club that matches his taste! (I would personally skip the jelly of the month club, though...LOL) When in doubt, I go with Omaha Steaks....this is what my Dad will be getting this year...Bacon Wrapped Fillet Mignon ...



What are you giving your Father this year? Tell us...savvy shoppers want to know!

Product Review: The Hana Mini Flat Iron ROCKS!

I was skeptical yet excited when I received my new flat iron in the mail a few days ago. I just returned from a wonderful vacation in Cabo San Lucas and my hair was completely trashed from a seven day dose of tropical sun, salt water, and chlorine from a fairytale life of luxury...LOL. Before I tried my Hana Nano Mini, I had pretty much given up on flat irons. Although my hair is short, it is thick with a very funky wave that drives me insane!!! I am extremely happy to say that the Nano Mini blew my expectations out of the water...after ten minutes of use, my hair was perfectly straight, smooth as silk, and completely frizz free...FINALLY! I love this compact version (retail $70), but will definitely look into the full sized version as well because that should speed up the straightening process even more!!! My only complaint about the Hana Mini is that I received it too late...it would have been perfect to take with me on vacation!

The Gift of Three: Give the Hanna Mini with a styling brush, straightening serum and travel sized cosmetic bag for your favorite girlfriend on your list! She will rave about it for years to come! Happy Giving!

Help this Gift Giver!

This just in...a request for help from a loyal reader! Let's do our best to come up with a great gift for her to give her mom...

"Maybe you can help me out. My Mom says she doesn't want anything. She says this every year. I've made her scrapbooks, videos, homemade coupons, bought her jewelry, makeup, etc. She's a breast cancer survivor but doesn't like pink. She loves coffee but she's trying to cut back. She's also in school for her second master's degree so she's running low on spare time. She's 50+ years old and has 3 grand kids, but she's not into wearing anything that says "Grandma". Any suggestions for something under $40.00?"

At first glance, I would ask you what types of gifts does your mom normally give you? This is often a great clue to the types of gifts that she would like to receive! That being said, focus on an experience that your would like to give to you mom and build a theme around it! Instead of a tangible gift, could you take her and the kids out for ice cream or prepare her favorite meal? If she is pinched for time, perhaps a gift certificate to her favorite hair salon with some small pampering essentials that she can do in the comfort of her own home? If you want to go with a "school theme" would she appreciate a roomy but trendy tote bag to lug her gear or a comfy lap desk for her to use while she lounges with the family?

Readers...what do you think?

Knock Knock

So many of you have asked me where to find these fun office supplies, that I did a little research and found the best prices out there for you :) In case you don't know this about me already, I have a very sarcastic sense of humor and just love to give gifts that will make someone smile. Knock Knock products certainly fit the bill! Here are some of my faves, but please visit Perpetual Kid for a full selection of Knock Knock (and more!) at the best prices I could find!

Crap File Folders: $8.49 for a set of 6, two in each style


OMFG and ASAP Expandable File Tote: $15.99


Door Hanger, Office Edition: $6.99 for a set of three double sided hangers


Timing Task Clips: $7.99 for a set of 12, three styles each


Things You Must Do to Make Me Happy: $6.99 for a 60 page tablet


And last but not least...

Old School Sticky Set: $12.99


Knock Knock products really do make great office, graduation, or "just because" gifts. Indulge in the gift of laughter...you won't be sorry! For the best prices and selection, check out Perpetual Kid Happy Giving!

Mother's Day Gifts Under $50

It's not to late to find, buy, and give a unique gift to mom just in time for Mother's Day 2009! Check out some of my favorite gift items that I found online!

For a mom that loves the sun...

Boho Flower Beach Tote - $ 32.00
From: Room It Up

Fun Flower Towel & Sling Bag - $ 20.00
From: Room It Up

For a mom that loves to travel, mix and match any of these items!

Boho Flower Overnight Duffle Bag - $ 32.00
From: Room It Up

Boho Flower Garment Bag - $ 36.00
From: Room It Up

Boho Flower Travel Set $20.00
From: Room It Up

It's super easy to make a "Gift of Three" out of any of these choices. Just choose the "experience" that you would like to give to your mom and build a theme around that! Books, CD's and homemade goodies always make a great "go with" gift that can tie the theme together!

What experiences are you giving this year for Mother's Day? Please share your gift ideas below in the comment section! Happy Giving!

Priceless Gifts that Keep on Giving

Gift giving season is quickly approaching folks! And I'm not talking about Christmas, either. The spring months ahead will be loaded with holidays and special events that will sneak up on you quickly if you don't prepare. Here are a few scenarios and gift ideas to "go with" to give you a jump on the upcoming gift giving marathon that many fail to plan for this time of year!

For the Graduate: Teach your teen about money and stocks with "I'm a Shareholder" by the folks at Giveashare.com. For only $13.95, the gift of financial literacy is both practical and fun. It is designed to grab kid's attention with full, vivid colors, stunning graphics, and engaging exercises, This book targets kids ages 8-25 but many adults would find it informative, too...I sure did! Pair this book with a REAL share of stock (experts say that Wallstreet is on sale right now!) and you have a gift that will be memorable, and potentially lucrative! Choose a share that any teen would love: Disney, Nintento, Nike, Starbucks...the choices are endless. Prices vary, so shop around for a stock option that is in your budget range! Check out the book and stock selections at http://www.giveashare.com/!




For the Bride and Groom: Can't afford to buy something that's on the gift registry? Don't feel guilty! Just be sure to look at the registry and come up with a gift that will compliment their taste, style, and personality. Check out this personalized stamp that is both practical and fun for less than $50. Toss in some stationary and envelopes and you have a fabulous and classy gift that won't break the bank, but will also be used for many years to come!

For Mom and Dad: No one said that you can't combine gifts for Mother's Day and Father's Day. Just be sure to recognize them with a nice card or handwritten note on the "day of" and communicate to them that a joint gift is coming this year that they both can enjoy! Have parents that love to travel? How about this pair of passport wallets? Only $39.99! Toss in a few travel guides and travel sized toiletries and you have a pretty cool gift for under $50.

For Baby: Gift giving for new arrivals is so much fun, so get creative with it! I just love these BabyPack Pads by Buttoned Up...they are so cute and practical! From diapers to baby formula, antibiotic ointment to cotton swabs, or water bottles to kleenex, new parents will never the leave the house under prepared for any situation parenthood may bring.Only $6.99 each and would make a great complimentary gift to a diaper bag or stress reduction kit for the new mommy! Don't you just love these?

Have you found some creative and affordable gift ideas that you would like to share with our readers? Please tell us in the comment section below! Happy Giving!

Ballerina Booty Socks by Mud Pie

For the future ballerina, these little socks are just adorable. Why fuss with shoes when these little numbers can do double duty? So precious and quite affordable at $14.99 for a set of three. Incorporate these into a ballerina theme and give the gift of dance to the little one! Maybe you could find a tiny tu-tu or sparkly hair accessories. How cute would that be? Oh...what fun it is to dress little girls! What else could we add to this gift to make it really special? Please share your comments below! I can't wait to hear them!


Ballerina Booty Socks by Mud Pie™

A "Get Organized" Gift for Mom

I found a new favorite website! Organize.com
Just by their name you wouldn't think they would have gift ideas would you? I am happy to report they have a ton of unique, affordable and memorable gift options for everyone on your gift list! Like this beautiful magnetic organizer for only $14.99! Practical, fun and fully customizable. Throw in a cute pen, note cards, or a sheet of stamps...perfect gift of three! I have a hunch that I will be posting a lot of gift ideas from this website, so be prepared! And the they even have a clearance section...yipee! Check it out and be sure to tell me what do you think?
Clearance Items at Organize.com - up to 80% OFF!

Happy Giving!

The Gift of Kindness

(photo taken from www.kindnotes.com)

While working on a interview with Bargain Babe I stumbled upon a fabulous gift idea that you can either purchase online or get creative and make from your craft bin. Kindnotes has a full collection of customizable memory jars that would be a fabulous gift for Mother's Day, a special birthday or graduation gift. Starting at around $27, the idea is that you fill little envelopes with sentiments, memories or inspirational notes, place them into a keepsake jar or box, and the notes can be opened by the recipient every day. I just think they are really beautiful and can easily be replicated at home if you are on a tight budget. What else has caught my eye recently? Head on over to Bargain Babe and check out our interview on romantic gifts that won't break the bank! Enjoy and Happy Giving!

Gift Giving Dilemma: Suggestions for Brooke?

I just received this in my inbox today and wanted to give Brooke as much help as I could, so I decided to throw out this scenario to you and see what you creative folks come up with! Here's the dilemma...

"My parents' 30th wedding anniversary is coming up in early May. Obviously, this is a big one, and I would like to give them something special without spending a lot of money. They were planning a trip to the beach, but have cancelled it because, in this economy, they just don't have the $. I would have to ship the gift, as they live in NC and I am in PA. I know that they enjoy wine, but I'm not sure if shipping wine is a possibility. They also already have plenty of drinkware. My mom enjoys photography, gardening, nature, she also likes to cook. My dad is a pretty simple guy, he works, is very handy, and spends a lot of time out in the yard with my mom. Any ideas?"

Please share you comments below and help solve this gifting dilemma for Brooke!

Super Cute Personalized Notes

Who knew Walmart sold checks, note cards and personalized stationary? I sure didn't but found out when I opened my Wlmart bill this morning...LOL! After browsing the website, they certainly have a wide selection and you can utilize the "gift of three" formula easily with their products.

The design above is called "Honeysuckle" and they come 25 in a pack with envelopes and personalization for only $14.95. Coordinating accessories include matching return address labels (120 for $5.96) and notepads (set of two pads for $14.95)...all personalized! Pick one item within your price range and build a great gift theme around it. This would be a very nice gift for Mother's Day or Graduation Gift for someone going off to college.

Be sure to check the clearance racks at you local Staples or Office Max for small gifts like pretty pens, file folders, or paper clips that may compliment your selection. Maybe even throw in a sheet of stamps for that extra special person on your list...just be creative!

Please let me know what you think! Good luck and happy giving!

Do you have a gift giving dilemma?

Do you have a burning question or gift giving dilemma? We all get stuck on the perfect gift from time to time and I would like to help you! In fact, I believe we can all help each other! Post your question or gift giving issue below and let's all work together to come up with some solutions! Go ahead...fire away! I can't wait to hear from you!

The Gift of Three for Coffee Lovers

Ahhh...coffee! I love to give the gift of caffeine...LOL! This is super easy and versatile theme that can be given to virtually anyone on your gift list. Family, coworkers, or the hostess, use this theme when you're stuck for an idea! I guarantee the recipient will be impressed! Please share you ideas and comments below!

The Gift of Three for Mother's Day

Mother's Day is approaching quickly! Use the Gift of Three technique to make giving super simple and super special this year! Have a great gift theme idea? Share your comments below! We can't wait to hear from you! Happy Giving!

Virtual Shopping Spree

Bargain Shopping Tour at TJ Maxx and Marshalls: April 1st, 2009

Introducing "Keep the Dish"

New Foodie Gift Blog for Your Enjoyment! Come on Over and Check it Out!

Onesole Shoes: More Endless Possibilities

Starting at $98, these interchangeable shoes may seem pricey in the short term, but would definitely pay off in the long run. If you order online, you will recieve one shoe "bottom" with two additional tops of your choice. It's like getting three pairs of shoes for the price of one. With a huge assortments of additional "tops" to purchase from, this is another example of a great gift idea for you or the frequent traveler on your list. I would love to embarque on my Caribbean vacation with only one pair of shoes, wouldn't you? Check them out and let me know what you think! http://www.onesole.com/

Again, if you are in the Pittsburgh area, contact me and I will connect you with a local distributor who's prices are MUCH cheeper :)

Happy Giving

Onesole Shoes

The Miche Bag: Endless Possibilites

For the purse fanatic in all of us, the new Miche Bag has finally come to our rescue! What makes this purse so unique is the "build a bag" principle. You pick out a basic purse, choose coordinating shell, jazz it up with different handles, and you have the perfect purse to suit any occasion. Dress it up, down, or color coordinated to your favorite outfit by just changing the outside shell rather than switching purses all of the time! I absolutely love the gift giving potential of this bag. For example, purchase a basic bag and one shell for the holiday and then buy another shell for her birthday or special occasion. Next time buy her a different set of handles...Get it? The basic bag on the website runs at about $35 and the shells run for about $25. I had the opportunity to see and touch these bags in person at a recent fundraiser and I fell in love. These are very high quality bags! Especially perfect for travel or for a quick office to cocktail party switch-over. I think you will be hooked too. Check out the Miche Bag and be sure to let me know what you think!

PS... If you live in Pittsburgh and are interested, please contact me and I will put you in touch with a local distributor (and very good friend) who is currently running a promotional sale...props to you, Maureen!

Discount Gift Cards

Ok...this site is really cool. Not only can you sell your unused gift cards, but you can buy the ones you want from other sellers. Of course you would never buy a gift card with an odd balance to give as a gift, BUT you could purchase the gift card at the discounted rate and go buy the gift yourself from the store! For example, one of the sales running is 15% Bath and Body Works gift cards. A card with of value of $86.39 can be purchased right now for $73.43...a savings of $12.96! Sales change daily so be sure to go back and check often! Right now, the current hotlist includes Sports Authority, Brooks Brothers, Old Navy, Bath and Body Works, GAP, and Victoria's Secret. AND SHIPPING IS FREE! You can also build your own gift card and customize it with a family photo should you choose to purchase an actual card as a gift. Either way, a great gift idea that is simple, meaningful and also practical. Gift Therapist Approved!

The Gift of Self Help: Take Care Tips

Did you know that the Gift Therapist launched as a result of my appearance on the Jennifer Show during the holiday season of 2007. Before my appearance, I tagged myself as a savvy bargain shopper who could buy a complete outfit for under $50. Well, I appeared on the Jennifer Show and got to show off my bargain gift giving skills instead and the rest is history! I would not be here writing this (right now) had it not been for my friend, Jennifer Antkowiak! The Lord had serious plans for both of us and I'm proud to say that we became fast friends after that fateful day.

After a decade of knowing Jennifer Antkowiak as a newscaster on KDKA, I can personally report that her new book "Take Care Tips" is a valiant expose of her life, her struggles, and her passion for family far beyond what we were able to see on the network news. Here we see our real "Hometown Hero" in more than a two minute news production. We get Jennifer's undivided attention in an easy to read, ten chapter resource guide that readers may ingest and process at their own pace. (You won,t have to wait for the 11 o,clock news anymore!) Although I recommend you read the book from cover to cover, the book is designed to be a friendly companion to be used when you need it the most.

Ten minutes (or less!) is all it takes to "put on the brakes" and recharge yourself with one of over 100 tips that will help you be your best self, physically, emotionally and spiritually. After all, we all know that unless we take good care of ourselves, how can we expect to be a reliable caregiver to our loved ones? Jennifer encourages us to take time out of every day to take care of ourselves, no matter what! Leave the guilt at the door and make yourself a priority for at least ten minutes a day...and this book is bursting with practical and fun strategies that just may change your life, health and relationships with those you love for the better. From fitness tips to stress relief, this is the most comprehensive and practical book that I now have in my library. What a great gift! If Jen can do it, we can do it, too! Thanks Jen for fabulous gift idea with a message that really does keep on giving! Best of luck, love and blessings to you and yours! PS...check out Jen's website for more tips, recipes, videos, and advice on how to make your life easier! You may stumble upon some advice from yours truly :)

Gift Idea: The Gift of You
Central Gift: Take Care Tips by Jennifer Antkowiak.....$14.95
Added Gift 1: An assortment of herbal teas
Added Gift 2: A homemade goodie from your kitchen. Find some great ideas here!


Happy Giving!

The Gift of Food

Gifts from the kitchen always make a great gift but few folks feel confident enough to explore this popular and frugal gift outside of their own family. I have recently begun posting to a new blog that is dedicated to food gifts that are super simple, budget friendly, and a proven hit with my friends and family. I chose to focus around the narrow topic of beer bread because it is so simple to make and is very versatile to tweak...pretty much no-fail! So rather than take the focus from the bargain zone, I urge you to visit http://www.beerbread.blogspot.com/ and check out the easy recipies and gift ideas that I have had huge success with. Come on over and let me know what you think. We'll have plenty of fun talking about my favorite topic...great food! Enjoy and happy giving!

The Gift of Food

The Gift of Service

Tuesday evening I had the honor of being the MC for the Annual Salvation Army Award Dinner in Monessen, Pennsylvania. It was a lovely evening filled with a lot of positive energy and amazing people. One of the distinguished guest and honorees was Albert Lexie. I have known Albert for years and am humbled each time I am in his presence. Albert has spent the last 20 years shining shoes for charity. He travels daily to Oakland where he sets up shop at Children's Hospital and goes to work, donating all of his tips to the Patient Care Fund. Known as "Albert's Kid's," he has raised over $100,000 for this amazing cause. But there is a bigger story here. Albert is developmentally challenged and lives on only $10,000 per year....and he is such a happy man! His smile will melt your heart if you ever get the opportunity to meet him. It reminds me of when I was young and money really didn't mean all that much. Remember when your family, friends, and perhaps a trip to the Dairy Queen were all you needed to have a great day? That's how Albert lives his life, except the Dairy Queen trip is replaced with service to the less fortunate. Albert's efforts have not gone unnoticed...he was honored b Oprah Winfrey a few years ago for his incredible passion to serve the profoundly ill at Children's Hospital. Congratulations, Albert! Thank you for being a fantastic role model and inspiration to us all. May all of your dreams come true!

A Monday Morning Lifesaver: Shower Shock Caffeinated Soap

Don't laugh...but I am beginning to panic because I am running low on my Shower Shock supply. I always buy my husband an ample supply for Christmas, but for some reason, we are really tearing through the body wash and glycerine bars. Maybe it's been the long winter? Heck...we don't need an excuse...it's just a fun and invigorating way to start the day. The added caffeine doesn't hurt either. I'm not sure if the caffeine really works, but the fresh minty smell really is invigorating. I haven't found a soap or body wash yet that has come close. Wanna give it a try? Visit ThinkGeek Caffeine and browse around. They have a ton of great stuff at really cheap prices. Be sure and check their clearance section, too! Happy Giving!

Consignment Spotlight: The Savvy Fox

Since I have been in recovery from my retail addiction for over 10 years now, I wanted to share one of my favorite secrets to saving money on key wardrobe essentials...upscale consignment shopping. I ventured out today to the Savvy Fox Consignment store in McMurray, Pa. after getting the heads up from a good friend (thanks Tammy!)who is a fashion diva and fellow bargain shopper as well. I couldn't wait to check out the goods. What a fabulous store! The Savvy Fox carries upscale only clothing, furniture, antiques, and formal wear for a fraction of retail price. They are currently having a winter clearance sale and I walked away with two fabulous pant suits (one from Saks and one from Ann Taylor) for a grand total of only $15...YES! If you love Coach, Dooney and Burke, and Gucci...shoes, bags, wallets and accessories...you are in luck! Most were marked at under $100 and in pristine condition. For more information, here is the contact information:

The Savvy Fox of Peters
3855 Washington Road
McMurray, Pa 15317
724.942.5121

Store Hours
Tues - Fri: 11-5
Sat: 10-5
Sun: 12-4
Mon: Closed

Good Luck and Happy Giving!

The Gift of Spring

I don't know about you ladies, but I am ready for some consistently warm weather! This 40 degree rainy weather is really working on my last nerve! In between appointments today (that means connecting with new and old friends~) I decided to take in a little retail therapy at our local Gabriel Brothers and check out the giant toy sale they have going on...the place was packed! I got diverted by the crowd and wound up in front of a display unit filled with beautiful sandals from Ann Taylor Loft. I am a sucker for great shoes, especially those that sing "summer is coming!"...These lovely gold and silver metallic flats immediately caught my eye, and guess what? They were my size...gotta love that when that happens. It's like a sign from God telling me to go ahead and treat myself to a special gift...that I deserve it :) No problem taking Him up on that offer! They were only $4.99...JACKPOT! Many styles and colors are still available, but I warn you they will go fast! Now go get your spring fix on..you deserve it!

PS...these would make a great gift when combined with a beach towel and beach bag, don't you think? Mother's day is right around the corner! Happy Giving!

The Gift of Song

One of the happiest and memorable experiences of my life was choosing the song list for my wedding. Both my husband and I have a passion for music and we spent weeks researching and compiling only the best music for our special day. It reminded me of the early 80's when I would make mix tape after mix tape...all with different themes to celebrate different occasions. The music spoke to me then and does still to this day :) With computers, color printers, and digital music, now we can make great gifts right from our desktop in just a few clicks of the mouse. I'm loving that! And to capture memories in the form of song and pass them along to someone special is priceless...really! Very little from the wallet, but a ton from the heart!

Have you made a custom CD for anyone lately? If so I would love to hear about it! What was the occasion? What were the songs?

Gift Planning for Mother's Day

In my neck of the woods, Easter is a pretty popular holiday. If you don't celebrate Easter, don't bypass the pastel drenched holiday isles at your favorite retail store just yet! While shopping today at Gabriel Brothers, I noticed a lot of Easter/spring merchandise that could easily double for Mother's Day gifts.

For example, pastel kitchen towels, aprons, table cloths, linens, scented candles all lined up all together in the Easter merchandise. Of course these items will go on sale right after the holiday, but I would shop now for the best selection!

If you are giving a gift card to mom this year, pick up a small item or two that compliments the type of gift card you are giving. Just shave $5 off of the value of the gift card and scour the clearance racks for one or two small gifts to go with...this technique will make your gift more thoughtful and memorable. After all...isn't mom worth it?

Good Luck and Happy Giving!

Huge Sale for Baby at Gabe's This Week!

It' s time again of the Annual Baby Fair at Gabriel Brothers! I was there earlier today and they are busy setting up shop! Here are a few of the promoted sales for you to look forward to!
SAVINGS LIKE THESE, AND SO-O-O-O MUCH MORE:

• Snuggly blankets: $3.99 to $5.99
• Layettes, clothing sets & separates: $1.50 to $6.99
• Shoes & booties: from $1.99
• Teethers, bath & safety accessories: 2 for $3
• Pacifiers & feeding accessories: 2 for $4
  
  (Per their sales flier, these are examples only. Styles will vary by store)

To find a store near you, please visit www.gabrielbrothers.com

Happy Giving!

Win a Lovely Bracelet for Baby

Finding a great gift that will stand out among the onsies is often a very daunting task! This month, Rebecca Neiderer from Jewelry and Gifts by Rebecca has been kind enough to give one braby bracelet of your choice (boy or girl) valued at $24 to one lucky Gift Therapist loyalist this month! According to Rebecca, these delicate baby bracelets make the perfect keepsake gift for the new arrival or baby’s baptism. The girl bracelet is made using tiny fresh water pearls and rose quartz beads. The boy bracelet is made with quartz and hematite beads. The bracelets can be adorned with either a small silver cross or Star of David. The bracelet is crafted with an adjustable closure to grow with her, fitting most babies from about 3 months up to about 2 ½ years. Each gift comes on a presentation card in a gift pouch, with a blank gift card as well as a safety information card. The boy bracelet includes a poem for his future bride). Be sure to visit her website for a fabulous selection of handcrafted creations that will knock your socks off!

CLICK HERE to visit the Gift Therapist's monthly giveaway page. Visit often, enter daily, and tell your friends! Happy Giving!

Paula Deen Bakeware Liquidation

Attention bargain shoppers! I just returned from Ollie's Bargain Outlet in Belle Vernon and found a fabulous sale on Paula Deen cookware. From baking utensils to cookie sheets, all items are currently priced at at least 50% retail. I have a family birthday coming up and here's a great gift basket that incorporates some of the wares:

Gourmet Baking Basket

• One cranberry orange bread mix that I had in my pantry
• Silicone spatula set by Paula Deen: $6.99 (Retail $15)
• Non-stick loaf pan by Paula Deen: $6.99 (Retail $15)
• Ceramic square casserole dish by Paula Deen: $9.99 (Retail $20) I used this as the base for my gift basket!
• "Quick and Simple Recipies for the Busy Woman" cookbook: $4.99 (Retail $15)

Total Retail Cost: $65 plus tax

Total Gift Therapist Cost: $28.96 plus tax

Other items that were available include cookie sheets, cast iron skillets, knife sets, spring-form pans, dutch ovens and cake pans. I was in heaven! Follow the link above to find a store near you! Let me know if you are up for a road trip! Good luck and happy giving!

Are You in Love?

You know you are REALLY in love when…

• You gain 15 pounds and are only upset by the weight gain because you can no longer fit into your favorite jeans.
  You are no longer embarrassed when that special someone takes the initiative to wash and fold your underwear…I mean granny pants
• You begin to only put on half a face or none at all. Who needs all the makeup anyway?
• Going out after 8pm becomes an absurd proposition! Why go out when you have a box of wine and the wii fired up and ready to go?
• You become much more practical in your gift giving to each other because you have already received the full gamut of jewelry, romantic lingerie, and teddy bears that are required “love you gifts” for at least the first five years of being together.
• You begin spending less on wants, and more on things that you both need make your life easier or more fun. Suddenly those hair extensions just don’t seem that necessary!
  You wake up every day feeling loved, blessed and inspired to live the life of your dreams with a collaborating partner rather than a control freak trying to kill your buzz!

Happy Valentine's Day everyone! I wish you all much love and romance on this very special day! Happy Giving

Celebrate Love on a Budget: Tips for a Fabulous Valentine's Day on a Budget

Valentine's Day is not only for lovers! It is an opportunity to show your love in fun and creative ways to the most important people in your life. You don't have to have a significant other to celebrate this fun and fabulous holiday! And you don't have to spend a fortune, either! Here are some great gift ideas and creative alternatives to the traditional box of chocolates and roses that often exclude our single friends who refuse to celebrate this holiday. Let's make a concerted effort to cheer up the "singles" on our list this year! Ideas include:

• Host a girls only dinner and movie night. Instruct all the girls to bring their favorite "sinful" foods, favorite movies, and old pictures. Make a night out of celebrating the love of friendship and everything that makes your relationships so special and fun!
• Make or send a Valentine to a newly single friend. Follow up with a phone call to give them a positive boost!
• Host a carnation sale at the office and donate the proceeds to your favorite charity.
• Bake some goodies and deliver them to a neighbor or relative who has recently lost a loved one. Can't find your away around the kitchen? Buy a single rose or carnation and deliver it to them personally for an added touch!
• Gather the girls and go out for a dessert luncheon. It's easy on the wallet and you most likely won't be surrounded by gushy couples!
• Make a video and post it on youtube. Thank your friends, family and children personally for all of their love and support over the years. This is a great (and free!) alternative for friends and family across the miles :) Thanks to Angela Watson from Your Personal Poster for this idea!

What are your ideas? Please comment and post your suggestions below! Happy Giving!

What is a Fumi? It's the New Must Have!

I have been hearing about purse hooks for years but never gone the extra mile to purchase one. To a degree, they just seemed impractical and for a girl with ADD like me, remembering to put one into my purse would be just another "thing to do" on my very long "don't forget" list. The concept seems wonderful, but how could I remember to slip the gadget into my purse and use it consistently...especially since I swith purses just about every day! But the creators over at Ji Marie Pursehook sent me a sample of a new product that solves this problem.

The Fumi is a fabulous multipurpose purse hook that can be worn as a bracelet or purse decoration. With several styles to choose from, you can also purchase additional interchangeable charms that can be attached to the bracelet for an added touch of glam. Each Fumi (Fashionable, Unique, Multipurpose, Innovation) is made from recycled metal and backed with 100% recycled rubber that helps secure the hook to any surface.

Why do you need a pursehook? How many times have you gone out for dinner or drinks and had no safe place to put your purse? You don't want to put in under the table or chair, right? Who knows what's crawling on the floor...yuck! And how many times have you left that cute little evening bag behind because you forgot that you stashed it under the table? I've done it many times! Not any more!!! My Fumi is going to be a constant companion and fashion accessory for times just like these!

And the most important part...the Fumi works! I tried my "Charming" Fumi on several edge surfaces with handbags of various weight. It worked perfectly on each trial. I doubt that it will hold a bowling bag, but then again something so heavy would topple your entire table so use common sense!

The Fumi would make a perfect gift for the lady on your gift list this year. At $24.95 it's just the right price, too. If you join their mailing list, you will receive 15% off your first order! Be sure to check out their weekly specials for great deals as well. All orders ship within 24 hours so you have time to stock up for Valentine's Day and surprise your favorite girl with a fun, practical, and conversation starter that will last for years to come!

Dear President Obama...Give it to the people!

How much money would it take to solve the current economic crisis? How much money would it take RIGHT NOW to help thousands of people keep their homes, pay for health insurance, and have enough money to feed their children while they search for a new job? So far, the government has not even broached that subject and I am a bit disheartened that "Joe Plumber" who once was a priority now seems to be an afterthought...just sayin'!

The current economic stimulus package is up to 900 billion dollars. Although not passed yet, both sides agree that any job creation would not materialize for at least 1-2 years. Having worked in the nonprofit sector that often relies on government grants (can you say beauracracy?) I can almost guarantee that any efforts to revitalize the economy contained within the economic stimulus package are not going to trickle down in enough time to save homes, save current jobs, or fund any new programs to immediately assist families in need. I am not being pessimistic...I am being realistic. I am scared. And I don't think I am alone.

Not only do Americans need jobs, we need jobs that pay a living wage. Generating an abundance of minimum wage jobs is not going to solve the problem, even in the long run. What are the American working class people going to do NOW to survive and maintain a reasonable quality of life for themselves and their children?

If our government can come up with 900 billion dollars to fund ideas that may or may not work, I think it's fair for us as American citizens to request an insurance policy. Since the stimulus policy will ultimately come out of our pockets (and our children's), I think it's fair to request a very large stimulus package now so that we may "get by" while all of the grand ideas are being decided and implemented. Something in the five digit range should suffice, don't you think? Some will save, some will spend, and some will give...now that's what I call a stimulus package. We just need a little wiggle room while the big corporations and big government finally realize that investing DIRECTLY into the pockets of American citizens is the wisest and most necessary choice of all.

So please, President Obama...Give it to the people! FAST!

Anyone out there with me? If so, please write your state and local political leaders and demand that the stimulus package must include provisions that will help American families IMMEDIATELY. Who knows, we just may make a difference :)

For more information on what the stimulus package looks like at this moment, click here: http://news.yahoo.com/s/ynews/ynews_pl238
Enjoy!

Yes we can!

BUT...we can't do it without out YOU! Major changes are in the air for 2009 and we now have the unique opportunity to become part of the monumental movement for change. I think it's fair to say that most of know this change will not happen overnight, or next year. It will be a slow, steady, and comprehensive process that is in desperate need of our support and engagement. Unemployment numbers are going up and basic family needs will be under great stress. As individuals we may not be able to jump in and solve the financial crisis, but we can step up and help a family in need. Here are a few things that you can do today and support our new president in the quest for positive change:

• Donate non-perishable items to your local foodbank or church food pantry. If you have the means, please share the wealth. It is unconscionable for any child to go hungry in the United States of America.
• Cook a warm meal and deliver it to a friend or family in need. Ask them to pay the favor forward when they get back on track.
• Be a good friend to someone in crisis. Odds are that we all know someone who has been hit hard by a lay-off, family illness, or critical loss. Make the effort to connect, support, and become an ongoing source of inspiration. Listen and pray together...and most importantly, just be accessible and genuine.
• Clean out your closet and donate your gently worn items to your local Salvation Army, domestic violence or local homeless shelter. They will make sure your donations get to the needy. A warm coat, clean blanket, or flannel pajamas can make a big difference to a family in crisis.
• Offer support to a single-mom in need. Offer transportation to job interviews, doctor's appointments, or grocery store trips. Can you babysit while mom is pursuing higher education or away on a critical job interview?

How are you going to be part of the change? President Obama can not do it alone...our local government can not do it alone...none of us can do it alone. We all need each other to from time to time so why not start right now in our own community? Good luck and Happy GIVING!!!

The Gift of Love and Warmth

Valentine's Day is not only for lovers...it's for friends, children, and best girlfriends who make your life a little brighter! But what do you send the college student, long distance bff, or girlfriend across the miles? Here's a really unique alternative to the traditional Valentine's Day chocolate and roses that just doesn't fit this demographic...it's the PajamaGram

And it's just not for the ladies. Send the gift of warmth to your favorite couple with a matching set of jammies or your little nieces and nephews from the infant/toddler collection. And of course, my favorite...the doggie section!

So many choices! Be sure to check out their sale section for great prices on spa gifts, candles, and accessories to top off your gift...don't forget the rule of giving in 3's! Happy Giving!

Another Year Wiser: A Birthday Re-cap

Although being the Gift Therapist is the best job on the planet, receiving gifts is and always has been very tough for me. Yesterday I celebrated my 38th birthday and I can't begin to quantify the generosity of all of my family, friends and colleagues. Yes indeed, it was a very humbling experience! I can't imagine the stress they were all under. I mean, having to give a gift to the Gift Therapist could be a very daunting task, I imagine :) But everyone nailed it this year and I received some really awesome presents. Here are some of the gifts that I received and why they were so awesome....

• "The Last Lecture" by Randy Pausch: The most inspiring lecture that I've ever heard. I must have watched it at least ten times. Now I have the hard copy!
• "The Snuggie": I've been joking about it for months and now I have one! Because I am always cold, this was the perfect gift for me!
• A $50 pre-paid Visa: I'm a big fan of receiving gift cards...now I can go buy that awesome new wool coat that I've been eyeing up for months now...an now it's on sale!
• A romantic dinner with my husband: Fine dining is one of my favorite hobbies, especially with people that I love! Dinner at my favorite restaurant is always a home run!
• Emails and e-cards from my long distance friends: It's always humbling for me to receive kind wishes across the miles from folks who actually remembered it was my birthday. It really is the thought that counts!

A sincere "THANK YOU" to everyone who has hung in there with me and shared in my birthday joy! I appreciate your support, kindness and friendship more than you'll ever know!

God Bless and Happy Giving!

Made in Pittsburgh Gear for the Ultimate Steeler Fan

While watching the news this evening one of the personalities reported that the AFC Championship Game brought over 20 million dollars into the local Pittsburgh economy. The influx into the economy was attributed primarily from hotels, restaurants, and specialty merchants who sold (and continue to sell) Steeler's gear. In keeping with Super Bowl fever, I would like to introduce you to a very cool and environmentally friendly company that produces purses, belts and accessories from recycled license plates...RIGHT HERE IN THE 'BURGH! Little Earth has a wide selection of licensed products including must haves for the NFL, NHL, or Obama fan! The "Yes We Can" handbags are pretty cool...but back to the Steelers! Here is a look at three of my favorites, from highest to lowest:

The Splurge: $299


Steelers FenderFlair Purse


The FenderFlair is the ultimate way to fashionably show your team pride. Two full size Pittsburgh Steelers license plates form the sides of this attention grabbing purse. This bag is velvet lined with a pocket for your cell phone or makeup. Each FenderFlair is hand-embellished with hundreds of Swarovski Crystals.

The Conservative Choice: $29.99

Steelers Quarterback Tote - Polamalu

Steelers Quarterback Tote - Polamalu For those who have it all and want to carry it around with them, the Troy Palamalu Quarterback Tote is in the starting lineup. This roomy tote is great for a day at the beach, a weekend shopping trip, and more! Features: Authentic Team Jersey Material Magnetic Closure Interior Pocket Adjustable Strap 15" x 14" x 4"

And for Guy on Your List, The Steelers Bottle Cap Belt $39.95

Steelers Bottle Cap Belt - X-Large



Take you time, shop around, and find a great gift for the Steeler's Fan on your list! Good luck and Happy Giving! GO STEELERS!!!

What's on Sale This Week?

Need a new computer, diswasher, stereo or any other large home appliance? Don't drive store to store or spend hours surfing the net! The following FANTASTIC website does it all for you. At http://www.salescircular.com/ you can search and compare bargains just by clicking on your state. Best Buy, CompUSA, Kmart, Office Depot, Office Max, Radio Shack, Sears, Staples, Target, Wal-Mart and select local retailers are all part of this search engine making comparison shopping an absolute snap! Be sure to bookmark the site...it's a keeper!

Planning on larger purchase sometime in the near future? Visit my webpage and find the best bargains by the month, the best times to buy larger items, and snagging a great sale during a holiday that you had no idea existed! Good Luck and Happy Giving!

A Saturday Shopping Spree

Today my husband and I took off on an impromptu shopping spree to look for a new comfy chair for our living room. Somehow we got sidetracked and wound up in Barnes and Noble (one of my favorite stores) and spent a relaxing afternoon browsing the bargain books and new releases. One of my favorite corners in the store is where they display all the really cool office accessories, journals and office supplies...I know, I'm a huge office supply geek! The first thing that caught my eye, and quickly realized that I must have was this awesome jumbo lap desk. The one I use right now is from 8th grade, was a gift from my Godmother and is literally falling apart! I really should post a pic for comparison purposes one day...but, anyway...here is one of my newest favorite finds. For only $16.95 (or cheaper if you are a club member) you can run away with this beauty for yourself or the perpetrual student on your list. Isn't it fabulous??? Get more infomation, specs and many other color choices by visiting this link Blue and Brown Jumbo Lap Desk

Happy Giving!

A Unique Gift for Baby...or New Mommy

Snazzy Bear Diaper Holder


While doing my research for the best gifts of 2009, I stumbled upon a gift that was just too cute and unique to pass up. The Snazzy Bear Diaper Holder from Femail Creations just melted my heart and had me squealing "HOW CUTE!!!" If you have a baby shower on your list of events this year, you may want to scoop one of these up right now! I have a hunch this will be the one gift that gets passed around the room for a closer look! At only $24.50 it is a steal!

Happy Giving!

Just Be the Change

All politics aside...today is the beginning of a new era. Our new President has begun a passionate quest to inspire peace, unity, and justice among us all...here in the US and throughout the entire world. Today I accept President Obama's invitation to join his campaign and continue to work "hands on" to make my community, and our world, a much better place.

Today I found the perfect t-shirt that illustrates and inspires active involvement in the change process. Made right here in the USA, Just Be apparel is a state of mind, not meant to inspire, but to "just be." Designs reflect who we are or how we would like to be. Anyone can make a difference in this world if you believe in yourself. This special Be the Change tee is 4.4 oz. combed, ring-spun semi-sheer 100% cotton champagne-colored tee. Available in both men's and women's sizes at http://www.jb-justbe.com/ for only $18 each.

I pray that one day that "be the change" will be more than just a state of mind...it will become an integral and natural part of all human existence. Thank you Michelle Pratt Lienhart for such a beautiful design!

Happy Giving and God Bless America!

The One Dollar Challenge

Change is in the air for 2009! New year, new President, and new hope for individuals who wish to "do something" and contribute toward something bigger and more meaningful this year. So in the spirt of change, I issue you this challenge...

If you had ONE extra dollar to spare, what would you do with it to make this world a better place? You heard me...ONE DOLLAR. How would you stretch a buck to make a difference in your community? Who would you help and why? Think carefully and post your responses below. Video responses are welcome!

Prize: Good Karma and a feature blog post here on the Bargain Zone

Win the Gift of Pittsburgh Rock!

Not only is Pittsburgh Steeler's country, but the 'Burgh is also home to some of the best original music in the country. The Clarks have been rocking since 1988 and their four piece line-up has remained unchanged for over 20 years. Great guys, awesome music, and great merchandise to prove it! This month I have the honor of giving away a fabulous collection from the Clarks created exclusively for the Gift Therapist website. Sign up at www.thegifttherapist.com/giveaways.html and enter for your chance to win the ultimate “Still Live” CD and DVD gift set, an official Clark’s tshirt and autographed poster. I hope you love them as much as I do and you too will become an instant fan! Music from the Clarks has been featured nationally in movies, television, and Late Night with David Letterman. Enter to win and find out what all us Pittsburgh folks have been buzzing about since 1988! A value of over $50, find out more about these fine fellows and if they'll be visiting a town near you in 2009! www.clarksonline.com.

Thanks guys for the fabulous gift set and as always, may the force be with you :)

Super Savvy Valentine Savings

Searching for the perfect Valentine's Day gift? Why not take advantage of the multitude of post-holiday sales on mega-clearance right now? Look for warm jammies, ultra soft robes, and gourmet chocolates from the clearance rack and re-wrap in new papers...on clearance, of course! There are plenty of metallic papers and ribbons in silver, gold, and red hiding in the clearance isle hat would be perfect for your valentine wrappings this year.

Other fantastic bargains that make fabulous gifts for the girls or BFF's on your list include dazzling evening bags, jeweled broaches, and fabulous silk scarves now more than 50% their original price. At these prices you can create an awesome theme, give in three's and wow the recipient for under $25! Be sure to check out the discount department stores first for the best deals and budget friendly options!

Want to set a romantic mood that will last for many years to come? Check out Image Glow Candles and their Valentine's Day collection. These lantern type candles are lovely and can be used time after time without melting away. Insert a small tea light or battery operated mini candle, and you have a safe and sentimental gift to send across the miles or keep for yourself to show off at your next dinner party. A set of three makes a lovely and memorable centerpiece.

And don't forget the charm of homemade gifts for the special folks on your gift list including family, friends, and best buds. Nothing says "I love you" more than a handmade valentine complete with glitter glue, a cut-out of your favorite picture, and a personalized note from the heart! Go have some fun and be sure to enjoy and appreciate all the love and good karma that surrounds you!

The Gift of Good Karma

I'm not a fan of mean girls. For most of my junior high career (many moons ago!) I was bullied, teased and tried so very hard to fit in. If I would dare to post a picture of me back then you would understand why! Those times were very tough, but I had great friends and family to help me through it successfully. Today I sit here at my desk in awe...so many many fabulous friends with very generous hearts. Some old, some new...but tons of good karma all the way around. One of the best pieces of advice that I ever received was "hang out with people that you want to be like...their success and passion will be contageous." And I try to live each day surrounded primarily by positive influences that keep me grounded, focused, and grateful for being alive and being able to do what I do. Karma is all about reciprocity...what you put out into the world will come back to you ten fold, good or bad. So why not start planting the seeds of generosity and watch those seeds grow...both for your friends, co-workers, family, and the entire world? I promise you will be amazed at the results!

Spread some good karma!

The Practical Gift of Art

Who said art can't be fun, practical and affordable? And now Rachael Ray agrees with me! I'm so happy to share in the excitement of my good friend, inventor, and artist Barbara who will have her beverage CADDi featured on the Rachael Ray show in the upcoming weeks as one of Rachael's favorite things! An accessory to your take-out coffee, this product is genius. So genius that it made my "Top 20" list for 2008. I could see hundreds of buzy women toting their overpriced coffee dangling from their fingertips, thanks to this creative, practical and affordable creation. And the best part, you can customize them for your business!

CONGRATULATIONS BARBARA!!! 2009 is your year, baby!!!

Get Glam on a Budget

New year, new you? Great news! Budget beauty tips and tricks are going to be a permanant fixture here at the bargain zone for 2009! Over the years while recovering from my credit card addiction I figured out quite a few ways to still look fab while on a shoestring budget. From my head to my feet, I've got a few secrets to share!

First, let's start with our nails. For years I drug myself to the nail salon for my bi-weekly acrylic fill to a tune of over $75 per month. Sometimes I would add on an eyebrow wax or a pedi, increasing the bill to over $150 per month. After I finally did the math and realized I was charging over $1,800 per year in these services, I decided to cut back. Now I go to the nail salon once every three months for a maintenance mani or pedi and keep my nails filed and polished in between on my own. I know what you are thinking...I can't give myself that same professional look that the salons can provide. As a former acrylic addict, I can justify your concerns...but I found a new product that is absolutely amazing and gives you the look and feel of a professional polish job for a fraction of the price. And the best part...the polish stays clean and unchipped for over a week! (Perhaps longer if you don't pound the keyboard as much as I do!) The product is called Dazzle Dry by VB Cosmetics.




I received the product months ago to review and after using it for over two months now, it's time to put it out there for you to check out! The Quick Dry Nail Polish System contains a dry nail prep solution, base coat, two color lacquers of your choice and the quick dry top coat. For $54.00 at VB Cosmetics, this system will help you stash your cash all year long! Do the math...only three of four pro manicures per year plus $54 for the next best thing to use in between? Fabulous deal!
Fabulous product, fabulous price, and a great value. Gift Therapist APPROVED!

Out with the Old in with the New

I am so sad to see the holiday season has come to an end. I will miss the frequent parties, rich food, and play time with the little ones from my extended family! School has started and I imagine there are a lot of mom's out there trying to get their kids back into a consistent bedtime routine! If you are struggling, I have just the book that can help. The Dreamstarter Book by Jennifer Karin is a fantastic option for bedtime fun and slumber. Unlike traditional fairytales, this unique book provides on paragraph bedtime story "starters" that encourage creativity for an interactive storytelling session with your little one! What happens next is up to you! Currently available on Amazon for only $10.36, you can afford to stock up and share as gifts with family, friends, and neighbors without hesitation. In addition to the Dreamstarter book, you can download the Dreamstarter free game to play during quiet family time or at the dinner table. Lots of free samples are also available at Jennifer's website, so please visit and check them out. I hear a second version is in the works, so stay tuned and get your imagination working with a simple click of the mouse...you children will thank you!

New Year, New Look

and LOTS of fun are ahead for my blog! This year I resolve to create more thoughtful, inspiring and creative posts that will leave you with a laugh, smile, or a new perspective on an old problem. I love being "the Gift Therapist" and plan to spend a great deal of my time to make this blog into an integral part of your weekly dose of inspiration. I encourage you to post your comments, contact me with questions, pose suggestions and the like so we can all enjoy a great idea, a good laugh, or inspiring story together. Cheers to all of you! And I look forward to hearing from all of you! Please post your comments, thoughts, and ideas below!

Happy Giving,
Jennifer