I received a surprise in my inbox this morning and it was just too good not to share with all of you! My friend Leann Junker writes:
"I have been thinking about smart shopping for a while now that I no longer work and we are trying to "float the boat" on one income. I have one tip that you might add to your web site or think about when you're helping others. (Unless this is already included in your tips and I missed it.) I always try to be nice when I deal with people at stores. I believe in the Golden Rule and want my children to see me set this good example, so I am always nice even if a sales clerk is rude to me. I believe that being nice has "paid off" on a number of occasions. I'm sure this is nothing short of divine intervention, but there have been some examples lately where someone has thrown in something extra or given me a special coupon or let me in on some helpful information simply because I was friendly. And in return I genuinely show a lot of gratitude because in my situation every little bit helps. "
Indeed, Leann...this is wonderful advice that many of us take for granted! A little kindness and a smile can go a long way! Over the years, I have built very strong relationships with several clerks at my favorite shopping haunts. Because I treat them with respect and have fun with the experience, I seriously believe they look forward to helping me. Long before I was the Gift Therapist, I worked in various retail positions during high school and college. It is NOT an easy job! I still remember the customers who made my day a little brighter or made those long hours seem worth it in the end! Shopping can be a win/win from both sides of the counter if you keep the golden rule in mind! Thanks for your contribution, Leann!
Have you had a positive shopping experience by living the golden rule? If so, please share!
